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look my boyfriend and i are having a little bit of a problem there are some things we are both involved in and well during the activities he gets to overprotective but I still want to with him he is hot but it gets a little bit scary when he gets into overprotective boyfriend mode what should I do
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sarabeara said:
Okay. There are two types of protective: the good kind and the bad kind.

Good kind: for example, doesn't want آپ to do drugs cause he doesn't want آپ to ruin your future.

Bad kind: for example, doesn't want آپ to hang out with any guy friends, wants آپ to spend مزید time with him and less time with your other friends, wants آپ to quit sports یا کلب cause you're "neglecting" him.

So it really depends on the situation. Now if he's getting so protective to the point that he's scaring you, that a BAD BAD thing.

I know آپ probably don't care about my similar experience, but I used to have this boyfriend named Brad who was bipolar. He would freak out cuz I was just talking to other guys. He'd randomly get angry at me for things that weren't my fault (like not calling him back because I was busy studying). He'd always like interrogate me like "where were آپ last night?" "who were آپ with?" I got so sick of it that I finally broke up with him. He practically begged to get me back but I was done. I wouldn't take him back. Then like a ماہ later I got a new boyfriend. Brad got so angry and tried to beat up my new boyfriend. I'm so glad now that I got away from him.

So basically, here's my point: there's a BIG difference between protectiveness and posessiveness (like he wants to control what آپ do and whom آپ hang out with).

Lastly, if you're only with this guy cause he's "hot" that's NOT a good enough reason to stay with him. My advice: end the relationship before things become too serious and before he has a chance to try and control you.
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He is a good guy and doesn't try to control me
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Thanks broke up with him :(
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monsy38 said:
That depends on what it is آپ are involved in. It might be a bad thing and that's why he's so overprotective. However, if it's not than it means that he really likes you, but if آپ think that this is too much worrying from him than آپ need to tell him to give آپ your space. Also if آپ only like him because he is hot than perhaps you're not into him for the right reason. It's still obvious that آپ guys are totally into each other so i would try to work it all out, like promise to be مزید carefull and he promises to not overreact. If it EVER goes past only scaring آپ (And even that is already bad) than آپ need to leave him. You're in a relationship to be happy, not to be afraid
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thats just a fact
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Thanks broke up with him :(
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teamsalvatore98 said:
My boyfriend does the same.i like it when he punches someone and his شرٹ, قمیض gets torn..;p;p;p;p;p
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