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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Yeah... Not too fun when someone migrates over to your دوستوں instead, eh?
I have that sort of problem, except this guy isn't annoying and he wasn't bothering me; it's my friend's ex, and he won't get away from her. Just being around him makes her feel bad, یا maybe I should say "worse" since she has some depression.
All in all, I understand how you're feeling and I go through things like that too.
I can understand that آپ want him to leave your best دوستوں be, but I think that's مزید of their decision. I say that because of two things: first off, if they don't mind him being around them, then that's fine. Second, when آپ put down "making my دوستوں mad at me", it makes me think that they actually enjoy their company. If this is the case, then I don't believe آپ should interfere. If this isn't, I still think that آپ should talk to your دوستوں about this little "problem" and see what آپ come up with. This doesn't mean "devise some plan" to ruin his life, embarrass him, etc. I mean actually sit down and talk about it, and then communicate with him and tell him how آپ all feel.
Let's say that your دوستوں want to be around this guy. Seeing as آپ don't like him so much, I think that آپ should talk to your دوستوں and work something out. For an example, maybe they could hang out with him at a time where you're not around, so that آپ don't feel so annoyed. If this still doesn't work out for you, think to yourself that he's at least not bothering you. And that he's not doing anything mean to your friends.
We'll go for another scenario here for the heck of it: let's say that your دوستوں got together and talked about it. آپ all go and talk to this guy, but he still doesn't leave آپ alone. What do آپ do? I would suggest doing the same as آپ did: just ignoring him. I wouldn't suggest anything like "getting even" with him; no one needs to stoop down to any levels. Deal with situations maturely and calmly, and remember to be patient. Let not a single person yell, complain, whine, etc. It sounds like something a parent would say, but it really does make things worse if آپ do so.
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other سوالات that آپ may have.
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