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sarabeara said:
آپ have got to be blunt and brutally honest with your ex (Not saying to be mean, just tell her exactly how آپ feel). Tell her that آپ don't want to get back in a relationship with her because آپ like someone else now and if the relationship didn't work the first time, it probably won't work the سیکنڈ time. Tell her that what آپ had is now over and that you're over her.
Now, the harder part is being in love with the best friend thing. My honest advice is to wait a few months. I know a few months seems like an EXTREMELY long amount of time to wait to tell someone آپ like them, but trust me, it's worth it (If آپ are truly in love with her, then that won't change after the few months is up). If آپ find that آپ don't like her as much after the months have passed and آپ find yourself attracted to someone else, then آپ luckily didn't jeopordize your friendship, and آپ can now go on like it never happened. However, if آپ still feel exactly the same after the couple of months, then tell her how آپ feel about her. But be careful when taking the plunge: there's no going back. Your friendship is officially changed from that point forward. The main thing to ask yourself is "is it worth it?" Do آپ honestly think you're going to spend the rest of your life with her? Cause if not, then it's not worth it. If آپ two break up, آپ lose not only your lover, but your friend (I'm not saying that if آپ break up it'll be impossible to still be دوستوں after, it'll just be verrrry complicated). Are آپ willing to risk it all for a silly teen crush? (I'm assuming you're a teenager, sorry if I'm wrong lol) :)
I hate to sound like a downer, but it's the truth. Trust me, been there, gone through all this shit.
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