What do آپ think is the bigger influence?

what would آپ say is kid's biggest influence? Parents, یا social media, peers, other adults eg. teachers/group leaders/celebs مقبول characters یا other?
 What do آپ think is the bigger influence?
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no سوال mark, lol this سوال was written suckily
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whiteflame55 said:
Depends entirely on the kid and the situation. Parents can be مزید یا less involved, the kid could be مزید یا less interactive with social media, they could be less involved in social situations (home schooled kids would have less peer influence), and any number of other aspects are just as likely. It's possible that a single hero in a kid's life, real یا fictional, can be their biggest influence. At the same time, it could be a massive web of influences if a child is very receptive to a number of sources. It's difficult to say where influence lies.
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yes that's true, thanks for your answer, i would like to believe that parents are the biggest influence though, lol well...basically because, i want to have one یا two kids someday, and i don't want to be dissapointed :P
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BabyBlud said:
I agree with Whiteflame - there are too many variables.

Honestly and personally i think parents are the biggest influence. As a parents myself i worry about things i used to do at a younger age and often wonder, if i protect my child from those circumstances will that make my child a better person..or worse?
All i can say is from my own childhood experiences and the knowledge i have gained from being a parent, i will answer and سوالات as honestly as i can to my child and tell him of all the important things in life.
But that does not mean he may find a teacher a great influence at school. I remember i had a teacher, my french teacher to be a great influence to me. I was never really good at french, in fact i sucked so much! But she helped me, and was so patient and kind, i wished مزید people would be like her.
Again your دوستوں and social دائرے, حلقہ can be an influence. I started smoking at the age of 13, not because i wanted to but because all my دوستوں were and to this دن i have only quit for a whole سال (when i was pregnant and slightly after) to only start up again.
Each and every person in this world can be an influence to another if the right words and actions are spoken and done.
The best any parent can do is ride the waves and hold tight to the hand of their child as they find their own path in this world.
But to answer your سوال without all the opinions etc
age 0-6 - parents
age 7-16 - friends/teacher
age 16 - 30 - friends/lifestyle
age 30+ (reference from my mother) - mistakes, regrets and hopes from past life
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thank آپ for your answer Baby, آپ have a lot of good points, lolz to be because of all of these other influences, i feel as though parenting is going to be hard and scary! XD
coriann posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Oh parenting is gonna be the toughest job آپ have ever done and will ever do in your entire life, but it is also so very rewarding. Sometimes you'll think آپ shouldn't bother at all, but when آپ do and things turn out just the way آپ want them to, آپ know you've done the right thing :)
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
I would think actual human beings actually present in their actual lives.
Not magazines, television, movies, یا books.

I just can't imagine why any person would allow something unreal to influence their lives. I just think most people are smarter than that. I think the entire "blame society" یا "blame the media" thing is nonsense. I'd rather blame people.
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oh, so would آپ think it's مزید about adults present یا other children present?
coriann posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Probably an even haul of both, it all depends on the child and their level of respect for authority, i believe.
cassie-1-2-3 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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makes sense
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CD-1 said:
this سوال really can't be answered. Every person is different and age plays a factor in it too.
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oh okay, آپ got a point
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