how to come out !?

Oh God, I wish I knew what to tell you. But آپ know your family best and I think you're the only one who can truly know what to say and how to go about saying it. If I had to tell آپ something, I would say just get it over with and tell them. Say what feels comfortable, what comes naturally and, if they're worth anything, they'll still love and accept you.

If I were you, I would wait until I was ready. Tell the person آپ trust the most first. Someone آپ know wouldn't judge آپ for who آپ are.

After that, just keep escalating. Eventually, آپ will gain enough confidence to tell your parents. If they do not accept you, آپ need to be careful. For instance, don't bring ہوم a significant other of your same gender if آپ know your parents won't react well. If they do accept it, then I'm happy for you.

As for the اگلے part, telling your crush. This is an extremely hard thing to do. I, being a coward, would wait until I knew for sure how they will take it. As this is nearly impossible, just go with the flow. آپ don't want to startle her سے طرف کی saying it flat out. Just go slowly. I really hope that I helped آپ and I wish آپ luck.

Honestly, many of my دوستوں are lgbt and I know how آپ feel (since I was feeling the same thing آپ are right now). I have a girlfriend and my whole school knows. That's how آپ start it. Let the whole school know سے طرف کی telling someone with a big mouth. آپ will get a lot of سوالات and it will be overwhelming at first but it'll blow over in a ماہ یا so. Trust me. The people who care about آپ (even your best friend/crush) won't care. They will love آپ anyway. Your best friend/crush might even come out to آپ after that (don't count on it. I was the exception). After a while people in your neighborhood will talk about it and one of your parents will overhear. They will confront آپ and آپ just need to be honest with them after that. Trust me it works. If آپ can't bring yourself to do it now, just wait till your ready.

dont worry i know how آپ feel. i am afraid to tell some of my دوستوں and the people i live with. b/c my family is christian toooo but let them know that آپ want them to accept آپ for who u are and let them know that آپ are who u are and there is nothing that can possibly change that. with your crush if she is also bi then آپ wouldnt really have much of a problem but if shes not just let her know how آپ feel but also let her know that u respect her enough that آپ will not force her to do anything.

There really is no easy یا gentle way of coming out.
All I can say is the earlier آپ tell your dad the better
They might accept it and then again they might not.
But آپ owe it to yurself to come out