First a rant then my سوال to anyone that can help.

I'm thinking about taking and expanding my long تبصرہ link into an article. I'll keep آپ گیا کیا پوسٹ on that endeavor.

Also, check out stuff published سے طرف کی the Kinsey Institute. They have a lot of information on this subject.

Lastly, and I don't know if this is specifically about choice, but a حالیہ study proves that link. I know, imagine that, it's like proving there's actually a Big Foot! Now all we have to do is capture the elusive bisexual FEMALE and exploit her personal sexual preferences to prove that she exists. *rolls eyes.*

we all strive to find an equal, love is non judgemental, and true love, many would be better off being born blind n mute. people complain and judge for they are not happy unless they can throw a stone,as they too are a tad gay yet are to embarrased. get em drunk,an they will change, yet they will stay closeted. as to sientific proof. if they were naked, they would not bve able to tell who touched them along their groin, they quiver in anticipation, look at rocky horror ,oh do not touch oh do not oh do ohhhhhhh! some people love to put in their opinion,but love, wiow thats powerfull, true love. being gay, is supposed to mean your happy, a tri likes to try, a bi likes both,i love my wife to talk about trying new things,but am wary as honestly i know id enjoy,what my wife provides for us in the name of love.and yes آپ are a good person, just fed up with the games and the bullshit,what happened to being gay, has it become مزید of a dirtier waord than sex? good on ya. those people dont know any diiferent, let em go , آپ are the bigger person, آپ will find your equal,happy thoughts, and may peace be with you;-]

Here آپ are. I for one dislike when (idiot) people claim sexuality is a choice.

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That whole debate is so pointless. Does it matter if your sexual orientation is a choice? Does that make your orientation less important?

Rather than trying to present your colleagues with a scientific study, I would suggest telling them that that, yes, perhaps homosexuality probably IS a choice. Of course, then so is heterosexuality. And bisexuality. And so on and so forth. There is no "correct" orientation. We simply choose what feels right, based on where we are in our lives. And that's it. They just don't get it because they never had to "choose" to be heterosexual. It was so normalized they never realized there were مزید options.

Seriously, though, try not to get into that kind of debate with people. 9 times out of 10, they're not open to having any kind of alternative opinion about anything. Hand them a scientific study, and they'll dismiss it as "bad science." Tell them a personal story, and they'll just insist that you're wrong. They're full of it, so don't waste your time on them.

I've read the book 'Is it a choice, جوابات to the most frequently asked سوالات about gay and lesbian people' سے طرف کی Eric Marcus, it's really good, and it covers EVERYTHING.
It has stuff about: coming out, family roles, politics, and much more, including: How do آپ know if you're gay یا lesbian? What should آپ do if your child is gay یا lesbian? Do gay parents raise gay children? If آپ think a friend is gay یا lesbian, what should آپ say? Why do gay men and women want to get married? What does the Bible say about homosexuality?

I got it out from my public لائبریری (I love the looks on their faces when I get out these books, heehee) so if I were you, I'd check this out. And it IS non-fiction, it's a HarperSanFrancisco book, and it's written سے طرف کی a gay man. I really hope this helped, I hate the idea of آپ being harrassed سے طرف کی thos narrow-minded pricks. آپ go, honey!

they think my dads bi-sexual (don't ask) and im bi. I didn't choose 2 B. I just noticed 1 دن that i had a desire of both sexes.

They don't understand. Don't worry! People don't always know (Even if they have a briefcase, I just learned that) They "believe" what they want to. But like Heterosexual people. They didn't just choose. They were born like that.