Can آپ help me, with this guy? PLEASE!

Hey, My brothers friend comes over..alot. He is two years older then me but..we both have a crush on each other. I know he likes me because, we almost dated once, but then he got scared of my brother so he backed off. Now its just endless flirting and he keeps talking about other girls..to make me mad? Idk but sometimes he wont answer my texts...other times, he wants me around all the time. And I think he wants me to stay around so that when he is really for a serious girlfriend...I'll be there. But I'm not going to put my life on hold, just to please him. What should I do? I think I love him. And I dont want to let him go. help me please!
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shivers-zimmy said:
It Sounds Like He's Playing Hard To Get! I Don't Really Think He Was Scared Of Your Brother! But That's A Good Thing! When آپ Play Hard To Get It Means You're Seriously Considering Being With This Person, آپ Just Wanna Make Sure That آپ Want Them First! Which Is Really Actually Sweet Because It Means He Doesn't Want آپ To Get Hurt!

What آپ Do-
If He Won't Quit Playing Around, Then آپ Can Play Back! Sometimes, Don't Answer His Messages-Not All The Time, Just Like Once A Week! When He Comes Over, Flip Your Hair, Look Cute, And Turn Up The Flirting! Eventually He'll Get Bored Of Playing Around! Either He'll Want To Be With You, یا He'll Forget About The Whole Thing And Just Be Friends!

Best Result-
آپ Guys Will Be Really Happy! آپ May Get An Occasional Look From Your Brother, But It Won't Last Long! Eventually He'll Get Used To The Idea And Just Roll His Eyes When آپ Hold Hands! That's Not Bad! It Means Your Brother Is Just Looking Out For You, Like A Good Brother Should!

Worst Result-
If He Forgets About It, It's Not Anyone's Fault! It Just Means He Didn't Really Like You, He Was Just Infatuated! آپ Can Still Be Friends! And It's Best To Know If He Liked You! This Way, آپ Don't Look Like A Fool Throwing Yourself At Him!

Other Option-
Now, If آپ Really Think He Scared Of Your Brother, Then Talk To Them Both! Tell Your Brother That آپ Like Him, And To Stop Scaring Him Off! Then Tell His Friend That If He's Scared Of Your Brother, It Won't Be A Problem!

I Hope This Helps! I Know Relationships Can Be Confusing And Sometimes Hurt آپ Really Bad, But It's All Worth It In The End! :)
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thanks so much :)
midnight-stars posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Tell Me How It Goes! :)
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justin_b_lover said:
I'd talk to him, when your brother's not really around. If he does like you, then try and make things work, and if he thinks it'd be too weird with your brother, let him know آپ aren't gonna wait for something that might never come. If things don't work out, then آپ guys can be دوستوں right? Add a تبصرہ to tell me what آپ think!
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i agree! BUT if آپ really love him then talk to him about it.tell him your feeling and see what he says..if he feels the same and wnts to try it out then do so...but if he tells آپ he's not ready,then oviously don't wait around..i was in the same situation(3 years ago)lol,but we ended up being friends,now i'm with someone that really loves me
fabiola070 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Well, I'm glad it worked out for you! I'm sure that other guy let go of something big!
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thanks for the help :)
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CaRtoon_Love said:
Tell him to effin man up!
If he really does like آپ he won't let anything stand in his way. Same as آپ shouldn't let anything stand in your way either. If آپ two really want to be together, your brother should understand and just accept that. آپ really can't wait around forever. :P
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thanks :)
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