How do آپ know when your ex hates you?

We ended on a good note, it wasn't a bad break up یا anything and he even کہا he didn't want it to end. But he hasn't spoke to me in a ماہ and he کہا he would still talk to me and meet up with me and stuff and he hasn't....yet, anyway. And also like 2 weeks پہلے i went on facebook and as soon as I went online he went off, do آپ think he hates me یا what? i'm confused. I haven't done anything either. Cause when he left me he told me he loves me but the relationship has to end cause he could end up hurting me. Do آپ think he hates me یا do آپ think he still likes me?
 RnBStar13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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cookiehead101 said:
i dont think he hates u i just think he needs some time یا he just feels awkward cuz after all u r his ex so maybe he just feels awkward یا needs some space just leave him alone if it continues اگلے time u c him ask him if anythings wrong یا if u did something 2 offend him
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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I have left him alone, I haven't bothered him at all.Like I کہا I haven't spoke to him in a ماہ . And I will
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Karthigesh said:
Sweetie, let me speak to آپ from a guy's perspective. I doubt it is easy for him to talk to آپ normally now after breaking up. It's always hard for exes to stay friends, especially during the beginning stages where it is just plain awkward. This awkwardness can however go away if the guy puts in the effort to be a little مزید mature about it and talk to you....

Truthfully I think he is still isn't quite over آپ yet, maybe that is why he is avoiding you. آپ should give him some time, and see if he talks to آپ soon, because when he is ready he will. If he still doesn't then آپ are better off, just not talking to him altogether because it is a matter of mutual respect and friendship.

One last thing sweetie, never ever, blame yourself and think آپ are the one at fault. I know آپ are quite confused about his behavior but آپ have done nothing wrong so do not think that he hates you. He has his own issues and he needs to work through them, trust me, if آپ are important to him, he would work hard on it and be دوستوں with you, like what a proper gentleman of a guy should do.

Never let yourself feel second-best okay? somewhere out there is a guy who will treat آپ as his priority, and give آپ the love that آپ deserve :D keep your head held high always
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I know, but he promised to still talk to me and meet up with me, do آپ think he is just giving it time and that he will talk to me? and I won't thanks for the great advice :)
RnBStar13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Guys are always cautious about a girl's feelings. I think he is nervous and a little afraid to talk to you, because it is a big change, from couple to friends. He just needs to realize that he can still love آپ as a friend and watch over آپ and care for آپ and be there for آپ when آپ need a shoulder. Most of all he will want آپ to be happy. I can see he means a lot to آپ so I really do hope he works up the courage and be دوستوں with آپ again. Any man can make a promise sweetie, only a real man keeps it...
Karthigesh posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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