my situation gets better, then worse PLEASE HELP!!!!

I think your دوستوں meant well, but they didn't go about things the right way. They literally threw آپ into the spotlight instead of slowly easing آپ into it. Guys get taken aback when things are suddenly sprung onto them, it might seem difficult but I know how to fix this.

آپ have to use something that many people these days lack and that is sincerity. The اگلے time he talks to آپ یا آپ talk to him, don't get all emotional and trying to defend yourself because right now, what is important isn't what they did, but letting this guy actually see what an amazing girl آپ are.

So when he talks to آپ tell him this. Tell him that آپ are sorry things turned out the way they did and it wasn't your intention at all, tell him that آپ just want to get to know him better (don't confess your feelings), also tell him that he means a lot to آپ and آپ don't want things to be awkward, and even though it isn't your fault, tell him آپ want to make it up to him (you can use this as an opening to take him out ;) ).

Don't listen to what your دوستوں are saying for the moment, because until آپ hear a yes یا a maybe from him, آپ are kinda stuck with this, take it from me, sincerity goes a long way. I have this feeling he is mean to آپ because he likes آپ but he is just unsure of how to bring himself to tell it to you.

This is why I say sincerity is a powerful weapon. If آپ talk to him face-to-face and tell him what I told آپ just now, he would see how badly it affected آپ and he would try to cheer آپ up. Another thing that would happen, would also be him opening up to آپ as well, it's a give and take sorta thing.

So dear, do not fret, this can be fixed and آپ did not ruin anything. Love has many paths and many turns, just because one path is blocked, that is سے طرف کی no means a sign to give up. If آپ can't find a path, then make one yourself, just like how i told you. Be sincere, speak from the heart, and above all else, دکھائیں him that آپ are someone special :)

I wish آپ all the best and if آپ ever need مزید advice, آپ can always look for me personally :)