Listen, our sexuality has nothing to do with your appearence. This is not a decision anyone can make for you, it's only up to you. It's not really about what آپ want either. When I say this, I mean, آپ can't change the way you're born. For instance, if you're born gay, and you're in high school and آپ really, really want to be straight so that your life will be so much easier, it's not something آپ can change. You're born the way آپ are, no one can tell آپ whether آپ should be straight یا not.
You're 14, right? You've still got so much time to live your life. Just go ahead with life and see how آپ feel. You'll realize who you're attracted to when you're older.
And please, don't rely on other's opinions your whole life, because at the end of the day, it's your life, you're going to be the one that has to live it, so do what you want.
*Sighs* Hun, look. It doesn't matter if other people say they want آپ to be Lesbian یا Straight. that is YOUR choice. If آپ have the urge to wanna make out and go on dates with a Sex of your kind, (Female) then go ahead. I and hopefully no one else will Judge. But if آپ wanna go and make out and go on dates with a Sex that is not your kind, (Male)Then do it. آپ don't need us to make this 'Very hard" yet TOTALLY EASY Choice for you. Hope that answered your question. :)