Is there anything morally wrong about this?

I am 15, soon to be 16, and my girlfriend is 12.
For a long time I thought she was at least 16 (A short 16 سال old.) and over time I started to have a crush on her. While I had a crush I found out that she was 12, but I still went after her دل and eventually got it. Right now we are in a healthy relationship, but starting late September, it will be a 12 سال old dating a 16 سال old...
Is that morally wrong?
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ColieAnne91 said:
I think it is wrong cause a 12 سال old should not have a boyfriend. but as long as your not sexual with her till she is at least 16 herself its ok i guess but if آپ keep going out with her im sure yall will become sexual. so i think it is wrong.
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The relationship isn't about sex....
samuraibond005 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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it might not be now. but eventually it can lead to that && that would be wrong
ColieAnne91 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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yeah that is true, you'll be surprized that it will definitely become sexual when you're a little older.
Goldilottes posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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yup
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Mya43 said:
In my opinion, it's not the fact that you're older that makes it, yes, pretty much morally wrong... It's the fact that she's 12. If she was 14 and آپ 18, I would personally find it a little better. I just mean, I wouldn't let my 12-year-old تاریخ anyone, whether he is 16 یا 12. But it's my opinion, some people could find this very normal.
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But, where do آپ live?
Mya43 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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I agree with this answer.
boolander25 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Oh, and we both live in Virginia....
samuraibond005 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Ok.
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DaegFaerchsGirl said:
the is 5 years!!! so it is yes and no to me
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sehdt said:
The fact آپ thought she was older probably means she looked یا even acted that way so آپ can be forgiven for that. I am 36 but look much younger. However once آپ were aware of the fact may be آپ should have stopped it. But if آپ two are having an appropriate relationship for your ages and آپ know what legally can and can not happen and آپ do not pressure her. Then I see no reason why آپ should stop it. Theres 7 years between my brother and his soon to be wife (she is younger) Good Luck
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wolfgurll said:
my answer is no, because i know a couple who is 16 years apart and have a son. and really it sounds weird that shes 12 nd your 16 but ارے love happens and all u can do is go with tha flow nd dont make waves and even if u try to leave love will ALWAYS find u trust me i know cuz im 14 nd my bf is 18.
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Goldilottes said:
Well I don't think its morally wrong- It's different and you'll have to be very careful about how far آپ go with her. But, if she's happy, if you're happy, and you're both being sensible then there's nothing wrong with it just so long as her parents are ok about it (you may need to super-wow them), and that آپ are prepared to wait, then everything's fine.

One day, if آپ stay together, that age gap will feel like not very much at all. Theres only a 3 سال difference so I don't see a problem, and آپ seem quite sensible.
So good luck, and don't let things get in the way of your love ^^ x
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Well, to be honest, I don't want sex, that can wait until/if we get married. : /
samuraibond005 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Oh well then thats cool. but i didn't only mean sex, and stuff. آپ seem sensible so no i don;t think theres anything wrong with it at all, especially if she looks and acts older.
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Team_Carlisle said:
Absolutely not! My parents are 18 years apart and as they say age is just a number. Yes there are people who dont think its right. I personally say:Follow your heart.
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2dolphn97 said:
Well no it's not morally wrong ik people that were 16 یا so yrs apart & got married I mean if u have sex w/ her now than no but like if آپ 2 got married it would be healthy it should be fine tho a little wierd ;) honestly because your 16 and she's 12 she probably didn't even think uk she existed :) good luck I hope it works out between u 2
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lolibarbie said:
Kind of. I think it's totally sweet, and it's your life and آپ should life it the way آپ want to, but it's still kind of weird. That's just me.
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angrybirdgirl said:
ya kinda


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writer67 said:
many will judge, yet as long as آپ are both are mature and enjoy one anothers company and spennd the times talking and finding the traits of one another,and becoming great freinds is what all strive for in any relationship, as long as her parents are aware of your intentions of an honorable heart.many are مزید mature than others. but many hope to find their equals with another. take youyr time enjoy life and the simple things of walks and talks, but remember study still must come first. especially if آپ want to live happily ever after, i wish آپ good luck. but b nice in all آپ do, آپ may b older, but if آپ break her heart, things could and would get messy.aim for a future of the white picket fence, and slowly tell one another all of one another, Gog doesnt judge until the دن we pass, so be good in all آپ do. my wife is 13yrs younger than i, and we still do the dating thing,it keeps us یا me young;-]

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White picket fence? Nah, we are both Japan lovers. XD Yay Japanese dream.
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