If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay! Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save آپ from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before آپ find what makes آپ truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating آپ as آپ deserve then hell no, آپ can't "be دوستوں ". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If آپ feel like he is stringing آپ along, then he probably is. Don't stay because آپ think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself years later for staying when things are not better. The only person آپ can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children سے طرف کی a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat آپ any differently? Always have your own set of دوستوں separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. *He will use it against آپ later. آپ cannot change a man's behaviour. *Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is مزید important than آپ are... even if he has مزید education یا in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing مزید nothing less. Never let a man define who آپ are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat آپ the way آپ ALLOW him to treat you. NOT All men are dogs. آپ should not be the one doing all the bending - compromise is two way street. آپ need time to heal between relationships - there is nothing cute about emotional baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
Never look for someone to COMPLETE آپ - a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary - not supplementary. Dating is fun - even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Dating should be an opportunity to get to know a person, to decide whether آپ are compatible - not a reason to sleep with every new person آپ meet. A slutty reputation is not attractive, and hard to live down.
Make him miss آپ sometimes - when a man always know where آپ are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never اقدام into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give آپ everything that آپ need. *Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive یا hurtful: and if a man mistreats you, do not stay in the relationship. آپ DO NOT deserve to be treated as someones punching bag, آپ are not the one at fault! Don't blame yourself, he came to آپ that way. آپ can not change him. He needs to seek help for himself, but آپ can't force him to do this. When you're gone, he'll miss out on a good thing!!
Don't believe it when he says "no-one finds آپ attractive". If he was attracted to آپ in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so آپ have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your hearts ....
Tsarina *
Never live your life for a man before آپ find what makes آپ truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating آپ as آپ deserve then hell no, آپ can't "be دوستوں ". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If آپ feel like he is stringing آپ along, then he probably is. Don't stay because آپ think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself years later for staying when things are not better. The only person آپ can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children سے طرف کی a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat آپ any differently? Always have your own set of دوستوں separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. *He will use it against آپ later. آپ cannot change a man's behaviour. *Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is مزید important than آپ are... even if he has مزید education یا in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing مزید nothing less. Never let a man define who آپ are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat آپ the way آپ ALLOW him to treat you. NOT All men are dogs. آپ should not be the one doing all the bending - compromise is two way street. آپ need time to heal between relationships - there is nothing cute about emotional baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
Never look for someone to COMPLETE آپ - a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary - not supplementary. Dating is fun - even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Dating should be an opportunity to get to know a person, to decide whether آپ are compatible - not a reason to sleep with every new person آپ meet. A slutty reputation is not attractive, and hard to live down.
Make him miss آپ sometimes - when a man always know where آپ are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never اقدام into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give آپ everything that آپ need. *Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive یا hurtful: and if a man mistreats you, do not stay in the relationship. آپ DO NOT deserve to be treated as someones punching bag, آپ are not the one at fault! Don't blame yourself, he came to آپ that way. آپ can not change him. He needs to seek help for himself, but آپ can't force him to do this. When you're gone, he'll miss out on a good thing!!
Don't believe it when he says "no-one finds آپ attractive". If he was attracted to آپ in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so آپ have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your hearts ....
Tsarina *