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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my love for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other دن i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother کہا " No مزید mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with آپ there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps آپ going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for آپ in physical form. MJ's there for آپ in spiritual form. But your family will be سے طرف کی your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that آپ truly love him, but don't let that blind آپ from the people that will be there with آپ at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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lol thanks! ;)
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WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ شائقین of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a پرستار of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a پرستار of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your love for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted پرستار and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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thanks that really touches my دل
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zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I love my obsession:D
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UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my love for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that آپ couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy آپ one if I knew آپ :)
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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awww i would buy u one too
mjrocks13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw یا know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to love MJ...

But loving him مزید than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

آپ did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe آپ should talk to a psychiatrist to see why آپ feel this way.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is مزید than one shrink out there. آپ just need to find the right one.
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AimieDawn said:
From knowing other شائقین of Michael, I know they have connections to him سے طرف کی his موسیقی and his love. But آپ do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, آپ should never love anyone مزید than your family. Especially someone آپ never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I love Michael, I truly do. آپ don't have to get every single thing related to him to دکھائیں how much آپ love him. It's about love, not obsession یا material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to دکھائیں your love.

Please get help and try spending مزید time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even مزید sick to see how many شائقین are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so آپ all approve of loving someone آپ never even knew مزید than your family? Oh whatever.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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And آپ think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but آپ really think he would've picked a random پرستار to be there for?
AimieDawn posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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^ Bit harsh...
lucaslover528 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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