Marriage? :/ Opinions please.

Yes, hi. I'm having issues so just one quick question, do آپ believe in marriage? Why? Why not?
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آپ ARE 14 WHY R U THINKING ABOUT MARRIGE
boardtodeath10 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Its my parents....wtf.....
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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I KNDA FIGURED
TeamSongz4eva posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Just because you're a teenager doesn't mean it's unnecessary to think about something about marriage. A lot of us think about abortion, don't we?
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Hinata-Snow said:
Yes. Walking سے طرف کی a loved one's side, forever, is the best thing in existence.
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Thank آپ for answering (: Very much appreciated :D
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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*Bows* np.
Hinata-Snow posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
PaisleyPark said:
I am starting to lose faith in marriages.

From what I have seen, this is what happens:

1. Divorce

2. Constant fighting, just staying together for the sake of the child.

3. Cheating.


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THANK U!!!!!! *voted an an AWESOMEEE answer*
RapQueen111 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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THANK YOUUUUUUUUU. That is exactly happening to my parents right now ):
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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*Hugs back* :)
PaisleyPark posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
MasterOfFear said:
I agree with Rob Zombie (excuse the language) but marriage is just LEGALIZED FUCKING!
It makes no difference! All it is is an expensive, unnecessary way of دکھانا affection. آپ don't need to throw money away on a ring, dress, and over-exaggerated ceremony to prove that آپ love someone.

50% of marriages nowadays end in divorce, which is just another reason why آپ shouldn't get married.
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D: That is one depressing answer, lol. Thank you.
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Depressing, but so true.
Kiniko90 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
LinaHarrow said:
Yes.
Why?
When آپ get married, that someone is yours forever. Your bound together in love. آپ have a special connection with that person, and a responsibility to take care of each other. It sounds wonderful to me. Sure, you're going to have problems. But you'll face them with your spouse, and I think it will be a lot easier to face life with him/her at your side.
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But what if he cheats on you? Secretly decides to divorce your mom? Mentally tortured her so bad till she lost 20 pounds? ): But thank you, that was lovely (:
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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oh is this hapen 2 u
TeamSongz4eva posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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=) Your welcome. :)
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iamagagamonster said:
yea
if u really love someone, then go for it. but not becus ur 16 and pregers. like on the show, almost all the chicks are plannin on getin married, thats just.. not the right time. ur damn near 17 and ur planin on to take a HUGE step towards love, but if ur kinda older than that and u really really love him/her then yea
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But people don't think about the consequences. ): My mom was basically blinded when she married my dad, so now shes just crying in her room every night. That happens to about almost every friend of mine D:
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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yea and about that, well u really need to get to there dark side and think.. do i really wana deal with that all m life یا just suck it up and get married with him/her
iamagagamonster posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Lol yeah. Thanks (:
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TeamSongz4eva said:
oh yeaaaa i jus get all warm inside thinkin about marriage:) the only scary part tht freaks me out about marriage is walkin down tht isle
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Creepy...lol
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Me too!!! But I'm definitely getting :)
LilyLil1809 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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YEASH
TeamSongz4eva posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Agree completely! =D
LinaHarrow posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
sapherequeen said:
Lately, I think marriage is overrated.

Marriage is supposed to be a beautiful, powerful, invincible bond between two loved ones who know that life will not be life if they don't have each other with them forever.

Marriage was seen as a treasure, exceedingly significant, as something that actually had some value within it.

But lately, marriage these days has become a big joke! :(

We have teenage love birds as young as fifteen thinking they're actually in love with one another and that they can't live without each other, so they go get a secret marriage, a private wedding with دوستوں if not just among themselves and a "pastor", and run away together. Of course, these are the type of relationships that can easily end up on Maury.

Then we have the marriages that exist just for convenience. Man and woman have one night stand, woman's knocked up, man feels that its his responsibility to stay with woman (or is pressured سے طرف کی his strictly religious parents), and rashly marries the woman. These are the type of divorces that involve screaming, shouting, judging, manipulating, messages in front yards made out of fire, crashed car windows, cars with "Cheating Bastard" scratched into them, mistresses and boyfriends (of course), and emotionally and psychologically damaged children who grow up being complete sociopaths.

We have marriages that last for about a few months until one of the 'soul mates' is finished with their lust stage in the relationship.

Or, we have this one particular situation that happened in my family; My cousin, Don gets married to a woman named Kit he only knew for a few months. He has two daughters. Kit was abusive to both children, and Don ingored it for the sake of Kit until my family becomes hysterical and Children In Youth gets involved.

Lastly, we have gay marriage, and I'm pretty sure we all know the controversy over that.
Marriage is about love, people, not gender.

Yet, lately, it doesn't seem to be about love at all.
Lately, marriage is just the third most perfect recipe for everlasting drama, fighting, scarring, and well evident stupidity.

Marriage is currently in complete turmoil if not a big joke, pretty much. :/
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Marriage is just a desperate attemp to ensure everlasting love.
MasterOfFear posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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^That too.
sapherequeen posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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No no آپ didn't offend me (: I agree, marriages are getting shitty lately. Thank آپ (:
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duncanlovR said:
A waste of money. If the one آپ love really loves آپ then won't need a damn ring to make him یا her believe they're really with you. They'll stay with آپ through everything.

Unless آپ plan to have kids and don't want last name confusion, then that's the only reason to get married in my opinion.
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Oh yeah.. forgot to say.. IF آپ can find someone like that. xD
duncanlovR posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Hahaha I doubt that :P Thank آپ for answering (:
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Haha yes :D
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shyboy77 said:
nope don't want to never will besides there are just some things people won't understand.
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Like...?
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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sorry it's kind of some thing i like to keep for my self
shyboy77 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Lol thats okay. Thank آپ for answering (:
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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welcome
shyboy77 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
star88 said:
YES for me آپ finally found tht person who love آپ for آپ u dont have to worry یا make your self look good u can just be آپ and tht person WILL STILL LOVE YOU!!!! THT UR BFFL i cant wait till i find tht person
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Me too :)
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LilyLil1809 said:
I am definitely getting married :) Well, not anytime soon, but one day. I spend a lot of time thinking about marriage, I love love <3
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(: Good luck then
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Thanks :) unless you're being sarcastic O_O
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Kiniko90 said:
No, I don't believe in marriage. First, there are the statistics. Then, there's when آپ get to witness the fighting and the bawling and the yelling and the blaming all firsthand. No thank you. I especially hate the part where the parents think they need to stay together "for the kids". I'm sure the kids will be mentally and emotionally better off if they didn't have to go through the constant motions of a failing marriage. At least I would, anyway.

I'm really sorry about what you're having to go through.
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Thank آپ :) آپ deserve a hug too (I'm high at the moment xD) *hugs* Again, thank you.
iluvllllll posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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*hugs back* ♥
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