"I assume everything is a trap, which is why I'm still alive." --Prince Humperdink, The Princess Bride
Look, آپ always have to be on your guard. Guys are usually pretty obvious in their emotions, but sometimes, they're hard to figure out. In your mind, just think "This may be a player. I gotta watch out for him."
Look to see if he looks at other girls when he talks to you, یا says things you're a bit suspicious of.
That's a difficult one, especially if he's a good liar یا actor. but he can't be that good if your suspicions have been raised enough for آپ to ask this question. So that could be your first step- how has be behaved to make آپ want tdouble-check on here? start from there, because of course every guy is different.
Other ways آپ can tell he could be playing آپ are that he doesn't seem as genuinely interested in آپ anymore. then آپ could ask him if this is true, and watch his reply carefully for any telltale signs he's playing you. be demanding of answer if آپ don't get a good one and try to throw him off balence, then he might let it slip. A good thing to do would be to invite him round to your house to talk about this in private.
If آپ could, آپ could try to check his phone when he's not looking, یا watch if he seems epecially guarding of his phone, یا keeps playing about with it. آپ could also ask around with your دوستوں and his, to find out if he has a history of being a player. Also, thinbk about whether his texting, phoning یا hanging out with آپ pattern has changed- does he do it suspiciously مزید often, یا less? You'd probably have to worry مزید if it's less.
There are ways of finding out these things, آپ just have to find them. Only, be careful because he might not be playing آپ and آپ might lose him if آپ interrogate him too much.
Either way, آپ can get further advice from تلاش engines like google and stuff x
Good luck hun x You;re worth مزید than a cheating player. xx <3