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help!! i dont know what i should do

ok so i have depression and my mom knows that, and i even started to cut. my mom freaked out when she found out but even tho she knows i have cut(she told me to stop). she still doesnt get it. she keep asking if i was worried. she wont listen. i dont cut because im worried. i do it because my دل hurts and it makes my دل stop hurting if i cut. it has just gotten worse, my دل cuts even worse then it ever did. i just want to keep smiling so my دوستوں dont know that something is wrong but it hurts to smile....what should i do
 starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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ladyshela said:
Have آپ considered talking to a professional? آپ should relay your feelings to someone who is trained to handle these kinds of things.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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like who? i dont have anyone and i reallty dont want to talk to my school. i hate my school. can آپ tell me where i can talk to someone about it?
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Like someone in counseling. My mom was abused as a child and she takes medicine and goes to therpy. There's got to be a way آپ can seek help through your guidance con.
ladyshela posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
sexi_emo_girl said:
I dunno i cut myself to but of course my foster mother dosen't care! :( damn my life sucks! :(
*Post random bruno mars video*
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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i sometimes think my mom doesnt care at all. one times i was upset and started crying and she کہا "yea just sit there and cry. feel sorry for yourself"
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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That reminds me of my dad ;(
ladyshela posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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:(*
ladyshela posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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@starfirey232 well i dunno who my mom is and my foster mother says to me cut yourself i don't care! :(
sexi_emo_girl posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
Shadowmarioking said:
Tell your mother how آپ really feel. If anyone can help you, your mother can. She can help آپ through this and get آپ out of this rut that you're stuck in. As for your friends, tell them as well. If they truly are your friends, they're worth telling something as important as this.

The سیکنڈ step would probably be figuring out a way to handle your depression. Counseling is always the best option, but آپ have to consider if your depression is that bad that it requires counseling. Whichever way آپ want to treat your depression, آپ go for.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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thanks but if i try yo talk to my mom i get scared and never do. its just everyone in my family thinks of my as a little girl that is sweet and doesnt know anything dirty یا bad. یا atleast i feel like they do. i feel like i have to act like someone who isnt me.
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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^That's probably because you're an introverted individual. Introverts act like their true selfs alone, but have a different personality (an extroverted self) when they're talking with other people, even family members. If آپ want to fix your depression and get your life back on track, آپ have to be strong and tell her the truth, no matter how scared. Human emotions are not meant to be bottled up in someone. If آپ can't confess to someone, you'll get no better than آپ are now.
Shadowmarioking posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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your right. i have bottled up alot and its coming back up later and i dont want this to come back 10 times worse like everything else that i have bottled up
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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^My point exactly. If آپ have to, آپ can even talk to me about these issues. Believe me, I've had a minor depression period and I've struggled with being the bully and the bullied individual in my life, and nothing feels better than to confess to someone how.
Shadowmarioking posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
HaleyDewit said:
Stay away from sharp thing...
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*things.
HaleyDewit posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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i dont know if that will work
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
iPsychic said:
آپ just need to tell your mum how آپ feel. یا maybe even one of your closests دوستوں because I bet they'll always be there for you.

یا either; stop cutting yourself. I'm afraid that pain isn't the answer to you're problem.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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if i stop that will make it worse. trust me
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
icuSTALKER said:
Yeah I've دیا myself a small poke with a چھری to try and draw some blood and I found it doesn't work.
First, put your چھری away. Don't look at it, even destroy it if آپ have to.
Second, let it all out. Cry until آپ have no مزید tears. You'll still feel broken but try to let it roll off in your sleep. Think of your burdens and your pain rolling off your shoulders. Try to feel it doing that and take a deep breath.
Third, go to someone آپ really trust. آپ don't have to talk to your mom if you're not ready. Let it all out in a private meeting and ask how آپ should word your feelings to your mom.
When آپ feel ready, talk to your mom. Of she still doesn't understand, let her be. Maybe she has something on her mind too. Ask her if there's anything bothering her. Say آپ need comfort and you're wondering if آپ can spend some time with her and see how it goes.
Depending on your mom's reactions, either back off from her یا continue on the road for آپ to heal and try to talk to her more.
Don't look at the knife. Find the good in your mother. Think 'who will I miss if I'm sad یا feeling devastated?' It might help آپ feel wanted and such.
Don't give up and keep pursuing. Do something آپ really like to do.
:)
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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1 and 2 wont work, 3, have talked to my best friend. and i love my mom, i dont hate her یا anything, but she doesnt understand sometimes and it didnt work for آپ to cut but it helps me. it will get worse if i dont
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
Jamie_Blue said:
I recommend talking to a professional. It really helps to be able to express what you're going through to someone. I have intrusive thoughts and I found that talking helped immensely.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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ok ill try it
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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if i ever find a prifessional to talk to because im not going to talk to my school
starfirey232 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Yeah go for it. Don't be afraid to cry either, it's all a part of feeling better. I believe in you, go for it!
Jamie_Blue posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
ilovemichael17 said:
i have a friend who had the situation so try to distract yourself from your depression if that doesn't work then see a professional for help
hope آپ get better:)
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