What do آپ do when your having problems with the آپ love but is falling for some one else :/

Sorry hon, i dont know what to tell you. Im pretty much having the same problem.

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I dunno, haven't had a crush... یا a boyfriend...

There are some grammatical errors in your question.

I'm not sure, I've been in love with the same guy for 3+ years.

That's not an easy سوال to answer. Maybe آپ could do something special that reminds him of why he fell for آپ in the first place. Sometimes there is no way to stop it. Sad to say, it happened to me overnight with pretty much no warning.