I really need help with this. I'm incredibly shy around certain people and I'm trying to talk to this guy but I just can't. Every time I get close to him my stomach gets wiggly and I feel sick. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME :(
Shyness decreases over time as آپ are مزید social and be مزید social around people. Face your fears and try to say something to people to decrease your shyness, it would eventually disappear as youget older. Also, try to smile مزید often, people will thinkyour confident and will likely talk to you. The مزید social آپ are, the مزید your shyness will go away. I used to be very shy when I was 13. Have mostly gotten over it :) This helped me a lot now I am crazy in public 1.Start سے طرف کی talking مزید to your family until آپ aren't shy around them 2. then do that with friends 3. in small groups in public that worked for me. Help lot of deserving people. Try to help those who are depressed, suppressed and oppressed in life. Thus آپ will gain over a period of time lot of experience and knowledge and finally one دن آپ will be fully conversant and familiar.
i have this issue to but i guess آپ just need to get used to talking to this guy, um if آپ have other people around آپ lke your دوستوں maybe that will help coz when i liked this guy i found it easier when my bestie was near me i dunno.....good luck :D
i don't know if to call it self confidence یا apathy, but lately i've found myself a lot less shy than in گزشتہ situations, maybe it was because i took a break from school for a while idk....
i think the only way sometimes to get rid of your fears is to face them sorry :( i think cutiepie has some good points, آپ should learn to accept yourself for آپ آپ are, stop short changing yourself, lol, it's a process and something that doesn't happen over night, im sorry but i don't know if آپ will be able to get rid of your shyness fast enough to get with this boy (you might) if آپ just hold your breath and have a go at it XD, that works for a lot of people
the first thing آپ need to do is self acceptance acknowledge you're shy, and that's okay, lots of people are shy, maybe آپ can even use that so your advantage in some weird way :P
and then آپ go on accepting yourself and your flaws and maybe even pointing out some good stuff about yourself, until آپ start to realize what a special and awesome person آپ are
then step two, which آپ can do while آپ are doing step one is GO OUT! face your fears :) آپ don't have to do anything drastic that آپ think آپ r not ready for, but just go out more, and then be around people more, open up to your friends, when آپ open up to people آپ start to realize the deep dark things that آپ thought were so horrible about آپ aren't really that bad
then, when آپ are confident about who آپ are as a person آپ would be مزید confident that people will like that person :) thus making آپ مزید confident about yourself so that آپ can make that اگلے move, even if your nerves still kill آپ sometimes, lol
hey, at least this is my theory, but i'm a quack, my plans never work, so be careful if آپ wanna listen to me :P