Is this really too much to ask for??!!

آپ do' nt have to do anything آپ do not want to .

if آپ do ' nt want a boyfriend in high school , thats perfectly fine , آپ should never try to rush these things because other people are doing it .

and i have the same needs for a man , as آپ do .

just keep looking he will come around .

is it bad to have preferences? absolutely not.

there is no problem in looking for someone who آپ want to تاریخ with your دیا preferences. however sometimes a dose of reality is in need. keep in mind that not everyone's gonna fit your image, and if they do they won't be the best of persons all the time. i suppose what people mean سے طرف کی "unrealistic" is that آپ won't find anyone looking for a set few characteristics. my choice would be to let things happen naturally, but of course that's my choice. you're free to take whatever path آپ want

the only thing negative i find about what آپ say is آپ complaining about it. آپ wanna find someone thats great good for آپ but honestly those sorts of تبصرے are better of kept between friends, not anonymous strangers on the internet who have far less nice things to say

آپ probably have someone like that in your life, in the friendzone. Poor guy.

Hmm, no it´s not. I think that it doesn´t necessarily have to be hot.I really don´t care if the boy is hot یا not, I just care that he respects people,to be honest, smart,kind and that he doesn´t brag stuff.

Nope

it is not! don't let anybody pressure آپ into being something you're not! i mean, you're not a drone, everyone is "not" going to be the same, and high-school kids can't seem to understand that, in high-school, there are a lot of groups and possies and the جملہ معیاری is, be like us, یا get out of the club, but later on you'll see that all of that doesn't matter, but آپ matter, and your hapiness matters, so i say follow your دل girl :) i think you'll be happier that way sweetie, than if آپ follow somebody elses دل XD یا be who somebody else thinks آپ should be, trust me, i've tried to please people, it DOESN'T work! for me at least, all آپ can really so "is" be yourself, turns out, that's what works best, so good luck dearie, just relax, sit back and take life one step at a time because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind :P lol (this isn't always true though) anyways, good luck! :D