Explain the limits of yours that people should not پار, صلیب

 Explain the limits of yours that people should not پار, صلیب
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zanhar1 said:
Do. Not. Put. Your. Hands. On. Me.

That's the main one some others;
- Don't touch my stuff
- Don't blatantly insult my writing (criticism is fine, being a dick isn't)
- Don't make sexual advances
- If I'm telling آپ about a problem don't dismiss it and don't write it off as 'not a big deal'. This drives me up the fucking دیوار and is 100% I don't talk to my parents about anything anymore because it's always, 'oh آپ think آپ have it bad, I had to deal with...'
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The last one: I definitely agree with you, not that I don't agree with the others. Nobody thinks it's a big deal until they feel it.
CokeTheUmbreon posted قبل ماہ X
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Tbh thats all Ive ever gotten in my life so I feel it :v
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@Classic Even if it isn't a big deal, it could seem like one at the time (especially if there are a bunch of minor things along side it--they add up!) and that's what matters. Also someone having a 'bigger' problem doesn't mean another person isn't having a problem. That'd be like me telling Sword telling me she had a good time in Japan and me being like, 'oh yeah well I'm happier than آپ becoz wt کنسرٹ tickets!' That just sounds really dumb lmao. Unfortunately there's plenty of sad to go around. @Riku I used to be taken seriously but tbh depression runs in the family and I'm 90% in that one instance I had in mind while typing this my mom only pulled that shit because I tried talking to her when she was in balls deep herself and we kind of just made each other worse. Whoops.
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gvldenyovth said:
1) Physical contact. I'm very weird about it and sometimes I'm مزید comfortable with it than others so it'd usually better to just ask یا stray away. If I don't initiate it یا I haven't کہا it's okay for آپ it's a bad idea. My dad completely ignores it and goes out of his way to try to hug me with out permission and it's دیا me panic attacks on a few extreme occasions.

2) Talking about my being trans. If it's a سوال that's okay but just randomly outting me یا having me be the trans person آپ know یا whatever I don't like. My friend does this sometimes and I have to ask them to stop because it's kind of a constant reminder that I'm never going to be cis. My dad (yeah we don't like this guy) also outted me to an entire community of people I didn't even know one time. Fun.
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#FuckDadsTbh
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ShadowFan100 said:
1: Physical contact. I’m naturally not a very physical, intimate person. I don’t like being expected to just give out physical contact when meeting new people. For example: handshakes. OK, I get that’s a common thing here in America, but not everyone wants to shake the hand of a stranger they literally just fucking met. For me, it’s rude AF for strangers to want physical contact from me. Especially when I don’t even know them. I don’t know where their hands have been, and I don’t want them touching mine. And that’s why I’m making it a habit to wear gloves when my job coach introduces me to people, and pressures me to give them physical contact.

For hugs, I almost never do this. Even with people I’m closest to. However, I do give out hugs once I feel comfortable around them. But not until then. The thing with me is: Physical contact from me is something people must earn, I’m not just going let آپ touch me.

But in most cases, tho, physical contact just makes me cringe almost 24/7. And I make sure they understand where I draw the line.

2: Sexual remarks are a “no” from me. I don’t see them as a compliment, rather an insult. I don’t like being seen as just an attractive thing that someone wants to bang. If آپ want to compliment on how I look, that’s absolutely fine. But DO NOT پار, صلیب into sexual remarks یا compliments on specific areas on my body. Doing so will get آپ smacked.

This is all I could think of at the moment, I’ll add more.
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Mauserfan1910 said:
Any amount of sexual harassment
I have tits, but I also have guns and muscles, so go ahead, make my day

trying to aggravate me
I'm a little violent sometimes and not good at self control. Sometimes what might seem like teasing can turn into a fight

talking down to me
I can't stand being treated like an inferior. If آپ can't respect me, I have ways of making you


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kingcesar67 said:
Just don't get me angry and we'll be cool.
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Makeupdiva said:
People sexually harassing me یا touching me. I've heard too many stories where girls are sexually harassed, asked inappropriate سوالات and touched but do nothing about it because they are afraid of either the person getting mad at them یا because they are too shy, I don't care if the person gets mad at me, no man puts their hands on me یا sexually harasses me یا even asks inappropriate questions. I will let the person know they've crossed the line if they do any of that.
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CokeTheUmbreon said:
1. Talking shit about, messing with یا lying on ANY member of my family: biological یا non-biological.

2. Stealing something valuable (or something I work for) from me. I may have a lotta stuff, but I have a set of blades. Make my God-damn, motherfucking day.

3. Messing with my دوستوں on a constant.

That's just like doing #1.

Common ground: they're ALL unforgivable. I may've been raised a Christian, but I don't forgive those things at all.

As for people that I hate, they can do the smallest, and I'll still try to impale them.

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ArcticWolf said:
- Don't touch me without my permission
- Don't touch my food without my permission
- Don't touch my stuff without my permission
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Nick3600 said:
do not steal the air I breathe for مزید than 10 منٹ یا آپ will be subject to spontaneous combustion
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