Can آپ help me with my guy troubles?

I need advice. There are these two guys that i like a ton. But i am going out w/ one of them (lets call him Eric) but still have feelings for the other one.. lets call him Ron. So a few months پہلے i told Ron that i just want to be friends, and im pretty sure he cried :(... But now i have feelings for Ron, but now he's ignoring me. How can I stay دوستوں w/ Ron and not let Eric get in the way of that? (CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION)plz help! thanks :)
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LadyL68 said:
This sounds like a problem my friend is having. She won't take my advice, but maybe آپ will. آپ have to be direct with both of them. Do it soon, یا else آپ will lose both of them. آپ have a few options.
1. Break up with Eric and tell Ron that your sorry آپ hurt him. Be دوستوں with him for a while, then ask him out when آپ think he is ready.
2.Stick with Eric if آپ truly like him.
3. Be just دوستوں with both of them.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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but i want to be مزید than دوستوں for sure w/ eric, but i dont like ron ignoring me(and btw i chose the name ron from hp :) --but anyway, how do i get ron to lighten up a bit and be best دوستوں practicall?
catsrule465 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Thats a tough one, but I'd just say that آپ need to talk to Ron and appologise if آپ hurt him. Be nice to him and see if he really is what آپ want in a guy. You'll find the one thats better for آپ eventually. Nice name choice, btw :)
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thespikedturtle said:
Being a guy, I'd really want to know if a situation like this was going on.

If I was Ron, I'd feel mad at آپ only if I truly liked you, and I'd want to know if آپ felt the same way towards me.

If I was Eric, I'd be completely clueless on what was happening, and I'd like to know if آپ actually felt anything toward me.

I think it'd be easier if آپ saw this from every possible perspective, and I hope it works out!
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Thanks, that helped :) but Eric know i really like him... however i doubt Ron has a clue :(
catsrule465 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Just stay honest to both of them, things will work out eventually! :)
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