In my opnion when it comes to friendship it means that آپ and the people آپ care about stick together for periods of time until آپ get to know one another.
However, not a lot of people are like this. In my case, I may have over a dozen شائقین but a percentage of them even talk to me nor do they know who I am and what I meant to be on here for. Don't get me wrong a few of the شائقین I have are very nice to me. Whenver I talk to them I always feel welcomed, safe, secured, and better. But when I am being treated unfairly یا being abused یا played around it makes me angry, sad, depressed, and unhappy.
I am not making this مضمون to hate everyone but I am just expressing myself to آپ all out there- the منٹ آپ try to make دوستوں with somebody most of the دوستوں آپ make will evenutally اقدام on and leave آپ behind, ripping آپ apart like a lion with a wildebeest. آپ may think I am going to leave آپ but I never will: I never forget someone once I have talked to them یا have meet them before. I always try to be on here all the time for my دوستوں and most of the time I make it while there are times when I don't even make it یا I may not want to come because I know I will get treated unfairly like what most people do to me all the time. It's just not fair to treat دوستوں this way.
Again I do not mean to start any arguments یا diagreeing یا agreeing here. I am only expressing myself because I think what these so called "fans" are doing to each other and towards me is unfair. We come on to have fun not to be abused. :( So the choice is yours- آپ can choose to be a bad person and just come on Fanpop and ignore the ones آپ care about dearly یا be like me and the rest of my other great friens and just come on for the joy and for talking to the ones that mean dearly to you. But the choice آپ make depends on the kind of person آپ are. I am a good person because I know I am. I give away gifts, I create gifts for my friends, I talk to them, come on for their sakes if they need help یا have troubles with something یا if they simply need a person who can listen to them. I am all of that and I am always online for them.
Just take a pieace of the page from my book- دوستوں are harder to find in this world especially دوستوں that آپ can relate to یا trust. I have a diffcult time finding the right friends, but I know I have them with me. They are the great ones because they understand me better and they know what I am looking for. I am not looking for someone who likes the stuff I do- even though that is what دوستوں are about but it's not the only thing I am looking for. What I am looking for as well are the kind of people that I can talk with and even express my proublems and feelings to. I know I have my family with me to express my issues too but they don't quite understand certain boundries. I am happy they are there for me and I always am happy to have them but I need some other good people besides them and that is why I come on here- to make as many great دوستوں as I possibly can to feel happy and welcomed. :) It's not about the attention, it's about the sake of the many faces here on Fanpop.
This is my story and I hope آپ all will learn something from me- it's not easy being the nice responsiable one in the group, but being reasonable and kind is what gets us going in life. It's always best to do what is right rather than do what is wrong. The right choices آپ make will effect the sake of your friends. I know I am happy being a nice person and a great friend for my friends. I love my Fanpop pals with all of my دل and I would never trade anything for them. I wouldn't even give up on them. If it weren't for them, I would be nothing. But just learn from what I have gone through: it's not always easy to make trust in somebody unless آپ get to know them better first. But if they ignore آپ یا go off doing their own thing then they are no better than any of آپ and I. Again, not being instuling about all of آپ just saying.