1.Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants آپ in their life, they’ll make room for you. آپ shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand سے طرف کی your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside آپ when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2.Stop running from your problems. Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every مککا, عجیب الخلقت thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3.Stop lying to yourself. آپ can lie to anyone else in the world, but آپ can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.
4.Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that آپ are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5.Stop trying to be someone you’re not. One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make آپ likeeveryone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
6.Stop trying to hold onto the past. آپ can’t start the اگلے chapter of your life if آپ keep re-reading your last one.
7.Stop being scared to make a mistake. Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times مزید productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. آپ end up regretting the things آپ did NOT do far مزید than the things آپ did.
8.Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But آپ are not your mistakes, آپ are not your struggles, and آپ are here NOW with the power to shape your دن and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing آپ for a moment that is yet to come.
9.Stop trying to buy happiness. Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
10.Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. If you’re not happy with who آپ are on the inside, آپ won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. آپ have to create stability in your own life first before آپ can share it with someone else.
11.Stop being idle. Don’t think too much یا you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. آپ cannot change what آپ refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! آپ can’t make it to سیکنڈ base with your foot on first.
12.Stop thinking you're not ready. Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13.Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14.Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone آپ meet. Some will test you, some will use آپ and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15.Stop trying to compete against everyone else. Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between آپ and YOURSELF only.
16.Stop being jealous of others. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17.Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. آپ may not see یا understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at آپ in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led آپ to a better place, person, state of mind, یا situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today آپ are a lot stronger than آپ were yesterday, and آپ will be.
18.Stop holding grudges. Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. آپ will end up hurting yourself مزید than the people آپ hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What آپ did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what آپ did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for آپ too. If آپ must, forgive yourself, اقدام on and try to do better اگلے time.
19.Stop letting others bring آپ down to their level. Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20.Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. Your دوستوں don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what آپ know in your دل is right.
21.Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. The time to take a deep breath is when آپ don’t have time for it. If آپ keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes آپ need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22.Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. Enjoy the little things, because one دن آپ may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments آپ spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23.Stop trying to make things perfect. The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
24.Stop following the path of least resistance. Life is not easy, especially when آپ plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25.Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. آپ don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. آپ shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if آپ need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner آپ do, the sooner آپ will be able to smile again.
26.Stop blaming others for your troubles. The extent to which آپ can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which آپ take responsibility for your life. When آپ blame others for what you’re going through, آپ deny responsibility – آپ give others power over that part of your life.
27.Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn آپ out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28.Stop worrying so much. Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29.Stop focusing on what آپ don’t want to happen. Focus on what آپ do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If آپ awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and آپ pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30.Stop being ungrateful. No matter how good یا bad آپ have it, wake up each دن thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what آپ have that everyone else is missing.
