آپ should never change who آپ are, یا what آپ like, یا your personality because someone else doesn't like it, یا looks down their nose at you... but sometimes it is important to know and to care about what others think of you.
For example... if آپ wear makeup, یا buy clothes that make آپ look good; if آپ are polite and آپ smile when someone smiles at you, then آپ care about what they think and this is a good thing.
If everyone کہا that they didn't care what people thought of them, then the world would be in total chaos. Respect comes from caring about other's opinions and what people think of you, it isn't all about somebody judging you.
The people who don't care at all, are the people who end up in jail and on the streets, doing چھری crime and disrespecting their elder's. the word 'care' itself implies that آپ are compassionate and loving. But as long as آپ know your priorities then آپ do care.
I am proud to say that care what people think of how i present myself, یا how intelligent people think i am, یا how polite i am.
I don't care about what people think if i skip down the سٹریٹ, گلی یا randomly lie in the middle of the park etc.
But there's a fine line between not caring and being uncaring.
Does anybody understand, یا do آپ just think i'm uptight?