Is it weird being turned on سے طرف کی girls kissing, but being totally grossed out سے طرف کی guys kissing?

I'd blame either society, یا your own sexual attractions. I don't know if you're a lesbian, bisexual, یا straight, but society has conditioned us to believe that the only true love story exists between a man and a woman. That same (patriarchal) society has decided that lesbians are even مزید of a sex object than straight women, and ergo, girl-on-girl action یا implied action is often used to sell products just as any other kind of sexual objectification. Ergo, society condones the idea that it's OK for women to be gay because it's "hot." However, since straight men should have no interest in other straight men, we're socialized to react with disgust at male displays of affection, and excitement at female displays of affection, regardless of our sexual preferences.

I think that any kind of couple making out is یا can be hot. But آپ can't fight how آپ feel. So long as that doesn't affect how آپ judge individuals, it probably is OK to feel that way.

But if it really bothers you, آپ can try to condition yourself to be مزید comfortable around male gay couples. If آپ want to do that, آپ might think about looking into gay love stories. There are several movies/television shows that explore gay relationships. It may help آپ see gay men kissing as less of a purely sexual thing and مزید of a romantic thing.

آپ don't have to find it attractive, but I think it's important to understand that it's as normal as two straight people kissing یا two lesbians kissing. Love is love is love, wherever آپ find it.

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Even though I'm straight...I love watching girl/girl kissing as well as guy/guy kissing...there is nothing wrong with either. And though I respect your right to your opinion CullenProperty...to call homesexual attraction یا love "disgusting" and to "refuse" to accept it...especially in this دن and age...is alittle closed minded. Let people love who they want to love...find the beauty in "love" ..dont past judgement...no one has the right to do that but the god they believe in and until آپ die and meet your maker...can آپ really be sure that God isnt cool یا not cool with same sex love? No one can...

This kinda what I mean when love can happen no matter who its between. Just like some Homosexual people think staright people are gross

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well, i love kissing girls too, but not any girl, i get turned on when i kiss a girl, there's only one girl that know's this, and she's the one i make out, im exactly like you, i think its grose and disgusting when guys make out but i find it sexy and hot when girls do, and i find it cute when a girl and a boy kiss, but for me, its sucha turn on on girls, your not the only girl that feels this way, i do too and plenty of other girls do too!

I don't get turned on سے طرف کی ether one, I get turned on when men are acting sexy and especially dancing around just in their undies کے, undies یا speedos. :P

Wow, this is an OLD question... but someone must have recently answered because I saw this in my updates, and I thought, "Hmmmm that seems like a good question. It seems like something I would want to answer." So here I am! XD lol & I will answer anyway.

I do not think it is a "problem." I am a straight female, one of those 99.9%-ers یا 100% percenters, and I know many are bi یا lean heavier one way. I am not so much "turned on" سے طرف کی females kissing as I can certainly see the sex appeal for a guy from his perspective یا understand that and I am like you, the opposite reaction to guys kissing for some reason- for me personally-my body. I think females are "hot یا sexy" in that they are pretty, but two guys - I am like you, not my cuppa tea, and go "Noooooo-" and if I see someone, a hetro-couple kissing, I am not "cute" but I might smile یا think it is nice یا "ahhh~" یا "wow" (if steamy) یا think "nothing" at all most likely, because, like the سوال maker, I am only turned on when I think of myself being kissed یا kissing ( سے طرف کی a male/mybf)~ so I feel similar is the gist of what I am trying to say. I don't see it as a problem. I am also aware (for me) what is lust یا lustful and what is not (in what turns me on and the difference between lust and maybe female (idk?) -just that preference type in things that turn me on, whereas some femmes really like yaoi - I do not. So I don't know, but I think it is just our chemistry, I think. In all my gay friends, both guys and female lesbians, I do see a difference in the female lesbians and my gay guy friends. Maybe it is just me???

To me it's not, but then again, I'm a guy. Lesbian stuff is a turn on for me, but two guys? Freaks me out a bit.

It is weird. I'm a straight girl and when I see 2 guys kissing its hot. When I see girls kissing, I'm like "WTF is this! Eww!" Unless its lesbians, then I respect it.