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Honestly, I need some suggestions/adive. I have questions!

Okay well literally 15 minuets پہلے i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 months, i love him and i was ready, and i dont' regret it WHAT so ever. But....

When he placed his آپ know in mine, i felt nothing, is that weird?

I had NO orgasm.

I didn't feel like anything, it felt like nothing was inside of me. (and he was.)


Any suggestions on why i had that?

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15 منٹ ago...and youre online fanpopping?
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Hellohoudini said:
Well it usually never happens like it does on tv...you know...fireworks...the first time...it usually painfully and usually the guy gets مزید out of it the first time than the girl...sad but true...but if آپ guys truly love each other (and are using protection and being safe)...you'll learn to 'know' each other and it will get better. :)
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Okay, good. Cause i was kinda nervous. I mean like i felt absoloutly NOTHING, not even bad.
Chlarkfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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if u felt nothing 4 him as in emotion then u mite have a problem. then it could have just been sex and tht cold 4 ur first time!
BlackAngel369 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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i mean like i love him, and i loved being with him. but when it comes to pleasure in my vagina, i felt nothing.
Chlarkfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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But آپ کہا it was the first time...you were just probably مزید nervous and scared than آپ thought....now if its like youre 5th یا 6th...then its he's not any good یا he's not the one یا آپ need to see a doctor....just suggestions.
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BlackAngel369 said:
ok first not evertime a girl will have an orgasm during sex. and 2nd did he cum inside of u,cuz he could b 2 small? (not 2 b mean) if this was ur first time and ur چیری, آلو بالو didnt pop then do it again and mayb u will. but some girl's cherrys pop and they feel nothing and dont bleed eirthr, so... r u sure he was hard enough and u were wet enough cuz tht helps a lot? sex is diff 4 everyone tht dosent knw wht will happen یا wht 2 do.
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He's a good size, i know that. (don't worry not mean.) I don't know he was hard and i was wet, it was just SO weird like i felt nothing. no pain no pleasure. I'm just kinda nervous.
Chlarkfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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wht were u so nervous about? geting caught یا not knwing wht 2 do?
BlackAngel369 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Both, i guess. But i mean i was relaxed and stuff NOW i'm nervous cause i just thought آپ were supposed to feel something physically like bad/good, i felt neither.
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sesshyswind said:
Perhaps your physical build didn't match up, eather his penis was to small یا your cannel (vagina)is natually wide. Don't worry I'm not the type to poke fun at a sensitive subject like this, its just that آپ may not match up physicaly.

But....XD, WAIT A منٹ are آپ saying آپ just had SEX 15 منٹ ago, for the first time, yet آپ lept out of بستر and logged on to FANPOP!!!! Where was your boy frind when آپ were doing this???? WOW now that's.... I don't know what to sayO_O'
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I had to go ہوم for dinner, so i went onto fanpop during the prepration of my chicken salad. lol.
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LadyLilith said:
Wow, erm...get er done? XD

Well it could be a couple things. I'm surprised that آپ didn't even feel anything bad (lucky...). Well...did he wear a condom? Because that could have gotten rid of some of the pleasure (I hate condoms). And usually...Idk, the first time is usually very different compared to sex آپ have afterward. آپ may have to have sex again یا a couple مزید times to start 'feeling it.' And as sesshyswind said, آپ may not match up physically (not saying he's small یا anything).
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Yeah he wore a condom, (though i'm on the pill, just for extra protection.) yeah we're gonna try it couple مزید times, hopefully it'll get better. and yeah i mean he's REALLY tall. like 6'3 and i'm 5'3 but i mean he's a gooood size..thank آپ for the advice.
Chlarkfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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well "hating" condoms....it might feel different withoot one but PURLEASE give yourself a pat on the back for being safe. since آپ say youre on the pill: if this continues آپ might want to speak to your doctor aboot this issue and try a different pill. hormones can have an impact on your sex drive and the ability to feel arousal.
germany123 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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I just personally hate condoms. I'm glad that آپ are being very careful though, Chlarkfan. :) It's probably just because it was your first time. I'm sure things will get pleasureable the اگلے couple times.
LadyLilith posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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I dunno the truth behind the hormone stuff, but if آپ decide to switch up birth control methods and don't want to take a pill I highly suggest a ring. :D They're awesome; I think they have actually increased my sex drive. Just saying.
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lililove15 said:
well, umm,. i dont think his "thinggy" wazz bigg... hahaha & hunny he wasnt good enough ether, آپ should look for someone better ;]
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Jillywinkles said:
It's NOT because his penis wasn't big enough---far مزید likely that your clitoris didn't get stimulated enough. Also, do آپ masturbate? آپ need to mimic a bit what آپ do when you're alone, so if آپ haven't masturbated much, start practicing. Once آپ are turned on and all ready to go, his penis inside آپ will be the added pleasure that pushes آپ over the edge. But the clit is the key to everything.
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