This may sound retarded but....

Well, first of all, you're asking in the right place.

The best advice I can give آپ is don't be afraid of your own sexuality. Test the waters. Feel things out. See how it works for you, and how it doesn't work for you. No one but yourself can tell آپ if you're gay, straight, bi یا "unlabeled." آپ are who آپ are, but even if آپ are bisexual یا even a lesbian, remember that it doesn't change who آپ are یا dictate how آپ should act یا what آپ should do.

Sexuality is a complicated and confusing topic. I'm sure آپ can understand now how it's not something آپ can flip on and off like a light switch. If آپ are adamantly against homosexuality for religious purposes یا other reasons, then I can't argue with that, because it's your faith. If آپ feel آپ have bisexual tendencies, but really, really, really do not want them, then focus on your straight tendencies.

But whatever آپ do, do not lie to yourself. Do not pretend آپ are something you're not. Do not bury something about yourself just because آپ don't like it. This goes for everything, not just sexuality, but I think it's especially poignant on this topic. If آپ try and hide who آپ are, you'll never be happy with yourself. That may sound cliche, but it's true.

I love who I love. I am open to a romantic relationship to anyone I believe to be a good person, providing the chemistry is there. Being bi یا pansexual allows me that freedom to fall in love with a person, beyond their gender.

آپ love who آپ love. Providing he (or she) is a good person and there is chemistry there. If آپ find there is no chemistry with girls/women, یا آپ find no romantic interest in them, but آپ do with boys/men, then that will probably suit your beliefs just fine.

I want to end this with a simple request - even if آپ don't like "lesbians/gays/bis" and don't support their crusade to be seen and treated like equal human beings and not sexual deviants, please be kind to them. Don't insult them, یا yourself, سے طرف کی calling it unnatural یا accusing them all of being sinners. Don't disrespect an individual simply because of his sexuality. I'm not saying that آپ do do this already - for all I know, آپ could be very civil and understanding. After all, I don't know you. I just wanted to put that out there.

First, seek to understand - then, seek to be understood.

A lot of poeple might say you're Bi but I say آپ just like who آپ like...like me.
I've had this discussion with straight male and female دوستوں and gay male and female دوستوں and they all come to the conclusion that I'm Bi..to which i don't agree. I just happen to like who I like and I find that a lot of people say Bi because they want a label on me, to figure me out I guess.But I think that if آپ dont mind defining yourself as Bisexual then that is سے طرف کی all means your choice and right. My opinion is that you're just happy to be with who you're attracted to :P. Good luck!!

i always heard it called bicurious.