am abotu to lose my viginity can anyone tell me how it feels

OK, I know this wasn't the answer آپ were looking for, but it needs to be said.

First of all, don't rush off to lose your virginity. Not to play mom, but there are a million good reasons to wait, and there are plenty of BAD reasons not to. Don't have sex just to lose your virginity. Don't do it because a boyfriend is pressuring you. Don't do it to be cool, یا popular, یا liked سے طرف کی anyone (including your boyfriend).

If you're curious about sex, explore yourself first. If آپ don't know what آپ like, it's better to figure it out on your own, first, so آپ can help your partner out later.

I'm sorry if I sound like a lecturer, and it may not be the cool thing to say, but I'm far too old to care about looking cool. I really, really hope آپ wait. The risks with sexual behavior is also higher the younger آپ are. First of all, teen pregnancies are much مزید difficult for young teens. سیکنڈ of all, and I'm not saying آپ are, but young teens tend to be careless and/or ignorant about محفوظ sex practices, and what آپ can and can't get an STD from doing. Third of all, there are psychological and emotional issues that can occur in kids who have sex before they are mentally prepared for it.

I don't mean to try and scare آپ out of it, I just want آپ to be aware. Can آپ get an STD from oral sex? How about handjobs? Can آپ get pregnant if you're on your period? What if he pulls out before he orgasms?

Do آپ know the جوابات to these questions? If not, I do not think آپ should be thinking of diving in over your head.

Look, I recognize that everyone matures at a different time. And I do not judge a girl for making the choice to have sex at a young age. But that doesn't mean I encourage it. آپ guys are so young! آپ have so much time. Can't آپ just enjoy that for a little longer?

Also, my general caveat:

well, it sorta... hurts i guess. its because a thing in ur vagina gets popped when the, er, penis touches it. and its filled with blood ^^". it doesnt hurt A LOT but it still hurts

First off, I agree with Cinders. My opinion(coming from personal experience) would be to wait until you're married. Not only are false pregnancy scares not fun (and they happen, not matter if آپ have a condom and birth control - nothing is fool-proof)when your still in school, but if آپ wait, آپ are 100% positive that the boy loves you. Saying "I love you" and meaning "I love you" are two separate things. It sucks to find out the "man of your dreams" only wanted آپ for sex.

I would also like to add that, depending on where آپ are, آپ maybe under the age of consent for your area. If the boy آپ are with is over the age of consent, and آپ are not, he can get charged with statutory rape and, depending on his age, go to jail. Keep that in mind.

Now, on to your question: There really is no "set" feeling for everyone. Everyone's bodies are different and no two experiences are ever the same. I can tell آپ that my first time hurt, but just a little. The only way I can describe it is similar to the first time I put a tampon in. There was a tiny little pinch, a strange uncomfortableness for a little while, and then it was gone. I didn't bleed, but I know some girls that have. Some also کہا that it hurt a lot.