I have no one. No one to talk to about being raped.

These are serious issues that I don't feel comfortable یا qualified enough to give adequate advice. So the best thing I can tell آپ is find an adult that آپ trust and confide in him/her. I know that's easy for me to say, and so much harder for آپ to do. It doesn't have to be your parents. School counselors are bound سے طرف کی confidentiality clauses, if آپ want to speak to someone who's trained in handling crises like this. Or, call one of the many crisis hotlines in your area. They are also trained in these situations.

What worries me is how آپ are reacting and responding to all of this. I hope that آپ are doing what آپ can to be as OK as آپ can, under these circumstances. I strongly suggest that آپ tell someone about the rape, so that they might find and prosecute the man who hurt آپ and stop him from hurting anyone else. But it's hard to step آگے and speak out - I know that. Probably one of the hardest things آپ will ever have to do, but آپ should do it.

Again, it's easy for me to sit at my computer screen and tell آپ these things, but you're the one that has to do them. I know it takes a lot of courage to stand up and do these things, I do, and I respect your fear and your struggle and your pain. But no woman who has gone after her rapist has ever regretted it.

آپ are beautiful, and innocent, and آپ do not need to feel ashamed. I know these may seem like just words, but it is imperative that آپ believe them. What happened to آپ is an atrocity, but it is not your fault. آپ are the victim, not the criminal, and آپ are a strong woman. دکھائیں that سے طرف کی standing up for your rights.

it doesn't matter what your familys گیا پڑھا مرتبہ on abortion and adoption are, if آپ do not want this animal's baby u don't have to keep it, it's your body and your life. i myself was raped at 14, though i was fortunate for the morning after pill. آپ need to speak to a professional about this, and سے طرف کی the way, they can't tell your parents without your permission. plz don't suffer in silence and سے طرف کی yourself. again, plz don't do what آپ don't want to regarding the baby. it's not fair to bring an unwanted child into the world, that is, if آپ don't want it. alert me on my دیوار if آپ need any مزید advice x

Couldn't آپ do something? Like a Women's Health Clinic... I agree, it's your body and your future that'll be affected سے طرف کی this baby. It isn't your fault for it. I know it must be hard but you're 13 and I don't think you'd be able to take care of a baby. Finances, school, life... Ya know?

It`s your body, honey. I understand you. I was raped to, but get pregnant.
But i`ve been through an abortion. Talk to a doctor.I don`t know how the law is in your country, but the doctor can help you. آپ can take abortion until 24 week in your pragnency.

آپ need to tell your parent`s what آپ feel. آپ DON`T want this child, you`re just 13 years old. If آپ keep this baby, آپ don`t have any future. آپ will never get the chance to be a teenager. Just think; your friend`s ask آپ out, to go to the cinema, but آپ can`t because آپ have a child.

You`re to young. آپ need to talk to a doctor,hun..

I am so sorry this happened to you. I agree with Cinder's that it is easier to give advice than to live through the situation. I think آپ should speak with a school counselor, member of the clergy یا some other adult آپ trust. Also, if آپ do رپورٹ what happened to the police, they may be able to prevent it from happening to another girl. I don't know how it works in the U.K., but here law enforcement has support systems for victims. آپ need someone to help آپ through this and the decisions آپ will be making. I hope آپ find someone. آپ will be in my prayers.

Im so sorry. I was raped when i was 13, and never really got over it. If آپ dont want the child, آپ dont have to have it. i personally think آپ are way too young to be having a child. To go to full term, it cause a lot of damage to your body. Just know there are always people آپ can talk to.Out in the real world, یا here on fanpop. We're here for you. Stay strong:)

That is awful. I really think آپ should just hold on and keep faith in God to help you. That's horriable..my سوال is do آپ know/can identify your attacker? If so, please, please, please turn him in. Take a suit againest him. I know it sounds harsh but sometimes آپ gotta do what آپ gotta do. My advice on the child is just...try to love it and if it doesn't work out, maybe your parents will consider letting آپ put it up for adoption...God bless.

Talk to a cob trust me i was 5 and got rapt سے طرف کی a man and I was at دن care with my lil brother and it was time to go to sleep he got me up when I was sleep and then he Put me in the bath room and he rapt me and I could not do nothing about it and my mom don't no about it and I neverd told her. Nothing but u should realy talk to some one یا ask god what he would won't u to do. Hope the baby look مزید like u.