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Yes, but remember that with sex, there is always a risk of pregnancy, even in محفوظ sex, though risk of pregnancy and STDs might be minimalized through the use of various contraceptives.

I would say that having the man wear the condom and the woman take birth control pills would be the best effort anyone could take to drastically reduce risk of pregnancies, with the added bonus of reducing the risk of catching an STD. Once again, though, even if the risk of pregnancy is .01%, it's still possible. Reducing risk does not mean eliminating risk. But with the pill and condom, آپ have not one but two lines of defense.

That کہا - I hope آپ are not considering having sex, but if آپ are, I appreciate that آپ are trying to get accurate information about it. I strongly discourage having sex at your age, because there are مزید than just physical health risks involved. I don't mean to lecture, and آپ probably won't listen to me anyways, but I just wanted to be clear.

Well condoms isn't really 100% safe. It doesn't protect from getting STD'S یا anything like that. Nothing really does. But anal sex I don't think that آپ could get pregent.

What Cinders کہا is pretty much the truth.

With me and my husband - we are not ready to have kids right now, so we double up. Meaning I am on birth control and he still wears condoms too. It really does double the protection. I've only had one pregnancy scare and that was because I did not use ANY protection at all.