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Kinda Personal : My boyfriend told me he masturbated and I'm thinking that it's a reflection on how he finds me attractive..

I know this sounds immature but he told me he masturbated 3 weeks پہلے and times before that, and we've been dating for a year. I feel like it's because he doesn't find me attractive, and I know that I sound very insecure right now but it's just we have sex, quite often and i don't see why he needs to masturbate?
 Chlarkfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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lilith84 said:
It's normal, trust me. I do it too and so does my boyfriend, sometimes even when the other one is in the same room. Self pleasure is important and has no reflection on how attractive your boyfriend finds you. It's probably his way to either give himself a moment of pleasure to relax یا relieve some stress. He was honest enough to tell آپ about it and I doubt it was his intention to hurt you.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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I completley understand that but we have sex 9 to 10 times a week and I kinda just felt like, "oh آپ enjoy your hand مزید then me?" am i being over dramatic? ugh.
Chlarkfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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maybe a little ;) the two of them are different آپ know... I could have sex 24/7 and still try and find time to have a little 'me' time with just my hand.
lilith84 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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I'm nervous to ask him..I'm nervous for the answer.
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youknowit101 said:
I don"t think a lot of guys masturbation as a part of their sex life. If آپ ask a guy who's not having sex about his sex life, he probably won't say "It's great, I masturbate at least three times a day"

Don't focus on whether he's masturbating یا not, but what he's thinking about when he does. If he was willing to tell آپ he was masturbating, he should be ok with آپ asking what he was thinking about. It's really sexy, actually. If he's thinking about you, there's no problem.
He could also have a fantasy he's too nervous to tell آپ about and this is his way to get آپ to ask questions. I tried that with a girl once, but she didn't ask questions, so I dropped it.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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So i took your advice (thank آپ very much) and he کہا he was thinking about me, which of course is flatering the only thing is, i'm wondering if he's not happy with our sex life. I don't have the balls to ask him that, in your personal opinion would آپ ever masturbate because your sex life with your girlfriend sucks?
Chlarkfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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That might be the reason, but if آپ guys are having sex 9-10 times a week like آپ کہا and he didn't like it, he wouldn't want to have sex with آپ so often. Ask him for details about what he was thinking about. if its about something آپ gguys alwats do, he's probably ok with your sex life. If its something different, he has a fantasy he might want to make reality
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germany123 said:
i know youre nervous to ask him as آپ کہا but seriously HOW do آپ expect to have a good relationship with someone if آپ cant talk to him aboot something thats worrying you? and can i also ask if آپ are comfortable aboot the amount of sex آپ guys have?
great answer,eh? two سوالات :P
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I'm very comfterable with the amount of sex we're having, it's often and very good, at least to me. So when he masturbates it makes me thing that he's not getting enogh یا getting it how he wants....l
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