what do u do when u feel like having sex but u know ur really not ready to

When your in the shower, go on your hands and feet (so our stomic is facing up) and put your pussy under the water. The water pressure has to be hard-ish.

Yes masturbating, before loosing virginity, during marriage, and after, (when that certain urge hits). I believe it is normal. The body needs release physically at times, and I am not referring to dwelling on lustful thoughts. Sure آپ can shift your thoughts and attention away from anything remotely "sexual" یا "lustful" but that doesn't always do the trick even focusing on a movie, یا cooking... آپ do not have to have sex to rub یا use a finger privately to stimulate your body parts and climax where and when آپ feel محفوظ and comfortable that is private to give that release.

We tell guys to take a COLD shower!

I focus my attention onto something else.

yur body sometimes gives u a signal that آپ want 2 have sex and thats normal,because your growing up.but in your heart,you know your not ready.i have found that its best 2 always follow what your دل is telling u because its ussually right.when the time comes,your دل and your body will both agree on it,then the time will be right.this is what i have told my children when they were growing up.take it slow.theres plenty of time 4 sex later on.good luck.

To be perfectly frank, آپ can pleasure yourself. There's nothing wrong with that, and after all, if آپ don't know what آپ like, no one else will. There are کتابیں that are aimed at adolescents, such as "It's Perfectly Normal", that contain non-judgmental info about sexuality and growing up.

Congrats on being aware that there is a difference between being sexual and being sexually active. There really is no need to rush into things.

actually u should just tell ur best friend i mean if u r comfortable vut my سوال is where is a goo place to do sex. (even i am only 13)

Masturbate یا use a dildo. To me those are the best choices.