Adult advise please

Well crap, yes that sucks, for you, and is sad for him. I'm an adult & I have been married. My ex was a diabetic and sometimes faced similar issues. آپ just have to act like it doesn't matter, even though they know it does and they know it does to you, but that only makes it worse. It happens. They need to know that it is not that bad. Just be comforting and loving til they work through it and maybe be sneaky sexy if need be, so they do not realise آپ are trying, lol. It happens to a lot of men and a lot of couples and it is مزید mental than physical. Try not to bring it up یا call مزید attention to the thought and just be loving & caring. (He can seek a doctors help for it is he needs to...there are injections and things).

Your boyfriend needs to calm down. This sort of problem affects so many men in this world i'm surprised there still shy to talk about it. He is not alone out there.
But he does need to go see a doctor to کریں تصدیق what exactly it is. To my knowledge there are two types 1. erectile dysfunction which can either be mental یا physical so needs to be checked سے طرف کی a doctor anyway یا 2. performance anxiety where the man in سوال is so wrapped up in how his partner may percieve him he begins to experience negative thoughts about himself and his performance, leaving him and his body detoriated to those around him and the problem at hand.

Both can be cured with time, love and trying over and over again. Depending on person it may be wise to either ignore the problem when it arises and switch to other hobbies/conversations یا talking through it reminding it's not his fault and there is no shame in it, that آپ are there to support it.
If he doesn't feel up to talking about it آپ can دکھائیں him in other ways that آپ are there for him and still love him. Making his favourite dinner, kissing and hugging him as normal یا inviting his دوستوں over for a بیئر and a footy match on tv while آپ go out shopping.

The best آپ can do is support him and continue to love him, there will be times when he will seem to be slipping away from you, blaming آپ یا saying things that make آپ think he is blaming you, blaming himself, getting angry and snappish. The best ways to deal with that is to walk away, calm down and then return with a smile to make him know there are no hard feelings.

There are so many support groups out there, both for the man going through it and his family, just google یا look in the phone book and you'll find them.

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