i need help i want to become bi how can i become bi i don't want to be straight i hate boy!!!

آپ can't... your سوال leaves me with the impression that آپ are angry and bitter, and possibly confused about Boys. آپ had suffered an unfortunate experience, Well I don't know the cercumstances of your experence, but I know this, I was also raped once, but I don't hold it against boys, it was only one man, and that's not All boys. Its not something that anyboy would just do, some are nice, some are good, some aren't, some are just plan jerks (ofensive, sexists JERKS!) but only a few can be an actual Rapest. What I'm trying to say is آپ can't just become BI simply because آپ feel آپ want to be now, the سوال is Are آپ attracted to Both Boys and Girls یا not, because if آپ are not attracted to both that آپ can not possibly become BI.

If آپ are strait and only like boys, یا a lesbian and only like girls that is fine, but just be careful, and know your company (a GIRL can be a rapest to آپ know). Only hang aroud with people آپ feel آپ can trust, and actually know... یا well, I'm not trying to make any assumptions, Since, of course I don't know you, I just mean to give the best advice I can.

Just know yourself, and go with that. Explore, but don't get stubborn, and become involved in affairs with other people simply out of the spite آپ feel towards Boys. That simply would not be fair to the other person (If آپ try to be bi, but turns out that آپ aren't, if آپ even have to ask... people usually tend to know what they are attacted to)... well, I hope this helped.

First of all: I am terribly, terribly sorry that آپ were raped. I know that it can engender a deep mistrust of the male sex. So in that sense, I understand your urgency.

If آپ find that آپ feel محفوظ with women, and being around women, and that آپ feel attracted to women, then go for it. But sexuality isn't something آپ can switch on and off like a light switch. آپ can't just wake up one دن and decide to be lesbian یا bisexual, anymore than gay people can wake up and decide to be straight. Either the attraction is there, یا it isn't, plain and simple.

The only way for آپ to "become" bisexual is if آپ already are bisexual.

Look, like I said, I completely understand the fear of men right now. But just give it time. And surely آپ have male دوستوں that آپ trust? When you're ready to start spending time with men again, start سے طرف کی spending time with them, just hanging out, like آپ usually do with friends. When you're comfortable around your male friends, maybe step beyond that. Try talking to guys آپ kind of know. آپ don't have to تاریخ them - just talk to them. Until you're comfortable with them again.

In the meantime, spend time with your girl friends. They'll have your back. Maybe just don't تاریخ یا be intimate with anyone, man یا woman, for a while, until you're ready to do that again. If آپ find in this sexual hiatus that آپ are attracted to women and آپ want to be with women, then, like I said, go for it.

But nobody can make آپ bisexual. آپ either are, یا آپ aren't.

Also - I feel I must encourage آپ to رپورٹ this devastating crime. I know you're scared, and humiliated, but that's all the مزید reason to رپورٹ this. Please tell the police. Too many rapes go unreported, and too many rapists escape to do it again.

Well if you'd like to be bi no one's stopping you. سے طرف کی all means. But if آپ were raped and آپ don't like guys, wouldn't آپ rather be a lesbian then?

im so so so sorry that happened! being bi isnt just something u can make happen. so be aware that this is going to work 4 sure. think of how محفوظ women make u feel. think about all the positives. imagine kissing girls, touching girls and even having sex with girls. idk if anything can really help u here... im so deeply sorry

Start looking at girls like myself in a مزید sexual way! Look at their boobs and vg and just have fun with it!

u cant just b bi just like tat u gattta feel u like a girl and a guy. u cant just say i am ganna become bi wit out u likeing others. u should expirament.

all gurls go throught...ugh i hate blokes...der just.... >:)



anyway my point,u dont choose to be bi not all blokes are going to rape u...learn to fight [;

theres not really a way to become bi, most pple are jst born tht way bt dnt realize it till they older. i wuld say jst try stuff wit girls and pple, and see wat ya thnk lol

Try to kiss a girl, یا get a girl in بستر with u and start making out, یا find a girl who is bi یا les and ask em out and then kiss em یا get them in بستر and make out!!!!!!!!!!!!!