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posted by gailmo23
Dear Ellen,
I am quite embarrassed writing this مضمون to you. My husband and I married young and went to college together in another state. I had never been away from ہوم before.I was raised to be a very dependent child and he was raised to be very independent. He has taught me all I know. However; we we were both lucky enough to be raised with good values! We just celebrated our 41st anniversay, getting married when I was 17 and he was 20. We both are educated parents of four children. My husband became ill about the سال he turned 30.He had Ulcerative Colitis and eventually had to have an ileostomy. He is now 61. He received an ileostomy that is irreversible due to the earliest of the illness. Since that time, he had suffered daily with adhesions from scar tissue which encompasses daily pain and nausea.
He lives on prescribed drugs but the pain and nausea never go away.He is on permanent disabilty. I live with depression and anxiety. I have been an elementary school teacher for 23+ years. I am currently on leave with no pay. We have four beautiful children and 1 beautiful grandchild at present. I have recently fount a wonderful doctor and therapist out of town. We were also involved in a terrible wreck about a ماہ پہلے and their insurance company still hasn't paid!It was not our fault. Tragically, the 72 سال olda lady pulled out in fromt of us.I have been accident free for 59 years except of course a couple of deer mishaps. I need advice. We cannot pay our bills at this time. We have told our adult children that we would just be enjoying the true meaning of Christmas, "Being Together" to represent the true meaning of Christ.
I am unable to work at this time due to my depression and anxiety. My husband just seems like he doesn't comprehend.I pray with a new doctor and therapist, they can help me become functional again so that I may return to work in the very near future!