I've actually been in this situation (being in love with two guys at once) and it's difficult for everyone involved. There really is no "best" way to do things, آپ just have to do what is best for you. Someone will always get hurt and I think that Bella handled it as well as anyone could.
First of all Bella کہا she was being selfless سے طرف کی kissing Jacob she wasn't she was being selfish if I was in that situation, I would remain loyal to my boyfriend and tell Jacob to go and fight, if that was the only other option he had.
i disagree with those who would choose Jacob , yeah i understand that Jacob is a werewolf so he could protect her &he wouldn't have to change her in order for them to be together but in Edward's defense what else could Jacob give to Bella that Edward hasn't already ? Edward is in love with Bella &he would rather keep her human than be something like him . &let's face it Bella &Edward could be together for eternity .
If I were Bella I would stay with Edward and tell Jacob i have moved on.Even though i would be with Edward i would still be Jacobs friend Bella and i would support him but I would do all that while being in love with Edward instead of Jacob.
for myself i'd pick edward cos he's مزید my kinda guy,into موسیقی and keeps tidy and to himself, quite an introvert. but for bella i'd have to say jacob cos he's down to earth like she is. bella doesn't suit the glam world of the cullens at all. she has مزید fun with jacob as well cos they connect better, but defo for myself i'd connect with edward :-) xx