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Is it okay to not have a boyfriend یا even a crush on a boy at my age?

I'm 14 and already in high school. And I've noticed something, pretty much everyone is either crushing یا being crushed(HA! Justin likes Valerie XD).

Why hasn't this sort of stuff been happening to me yet?

The only thing close to that is way back in the 4th grade and a boy was all flirty to me and stuff....OH WHY DIDN'T I UNDERSTAND LOVE BACK THEN! WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER!!! ....wow سوپ opera much... -.-


Anyway,,,can anyone tell me why this "love" is taking way too long >-< *getting pissed*


 NoahFanNumber1 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Vixie79 said:
Yes, it's okay not to be crushing on anyone at your age یا dating anyone either. There isn't any rules pertaining to when آپ should یا shouldn't anyway, it's up to you. You're still young, آپ should go out and have fun and be yourself. Don't worry about guys and don't try to be pressured into thinking your strange about not having feelings for anyone. It's not important, it will come naturally to آپ later and if not, that's still okay too.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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Great answer. I agree.
Moonbeam1953 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
Heartisalone said:
You're probably just not attracted to any of the boys around you.
I think it's good not to start too much love and romance in school and wait until your done.
آپ can focus مزید on your work.
And plus the whole Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing in school usually doesn't last too long...
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true, true. thanks
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TotalDramaChick said:
Of course. It's absouluty okay. When I was in 5th grade i didn't like ANYBODY. My دوستوں would say " Whats wrong with so and so loves آپ soo much and آپ don't like him back???" .. Now I'm your age and i'm going into my sophmore year. (that dosen't have to do with anything xD) Well maybe you're just not ready, یا maybe your scared people are gonna find out who آپ like, یا nervous your gonna get made fun of. I don't know. Well hope this works out soon. :)
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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I also agree with Heartisalone too. I think mine dosen't make any sense..
TotalDramaChick posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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^I like both :) thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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You're welcome :)
TotalDramaChick posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
deathroman13 said:
You're only 14 so don't worry.

I have the same and I'm almost 17.
I do hang out a lot with boys but I don't have a crush and I'm not in love.
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snapeislove said:
Well, I don't think it's normal (as the whole world thinks) but I am 17 and I don't have a crush at the moment.

If it comes, it does. Keep that in mind. :D
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sehdt said:
We all do things at different rates. I am 36 had boyfriends in the past. But not any مزید I do have friendships with boys and men and I do have a crush but I am not in love. Unless آپ are one of those to whom it never happens but even if it is its آپ and your life so dont worry just be you. Otherwise I am sure it will happen.
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almuno01 said:
Dont worry lol same here but don worry u still haave your whole life to find someone
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iluvsmj said:
well ur in highschool so yeah آپ can date.
14 idk آپ should wait til 16
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CornChips said:
It's fine, there's no rule that says آپ have to have a crush on someone. I wish I was like آپ at the moment, I got a crush that I want to go away now lol xD
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Thats hard when آپ can not get them out of your head.
sehdt posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Very true .__.
CornChips posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
wierdgem7 said:
It's totally fine. I'm single, and I find it can help because آپ can discover yourself, and be independent. Stay focused on آپ and YOUR dreams. Anyway, some of these crushes can get SERIOUSLY messed up. If آپ like someone and they don't like آپ back, that is sooooooooooo embarassing.
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xVanilla-Saltx said:
It's perfectly fine. I'm happily single, too - and not interested in dating right now. Sometimes, the people who آپ can have crushes on aren't really all that desirable. At this age there will still be a lot of immature boys, and آپ should feel proud that آپ haven't jumped into the dating pool just because everybody else has. It makes no difference in who آپ are, یا your self-worth. It's extremely normal; some people don't even start dating until after college. I wouldn't worry about it - let nature take it's course and you'll find the one who آپ are meant to be with, opposed to forcing yourself to do what's considered 'normal' سے طرف کی your peers. Enjoy the freedom of being single; there are things that آپ won't be able to do when you're in a relationship! It's perfectly normal. Good luck.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
rkz18 said:
It's totally natural to not be attracted to boys. Most women aren't. آپ probably won't start liking these "boys" until they turn into "men". And puberty is not over yet for you, try time learning who آپ are. This is a wonderful time, where آپ actually have the time to learn about yourself. Males take way to much time.
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
Brittanagleefan said:
Yes. But people are always acting like it's impossible not to have a crush on anyone, it sucks.
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