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Why do I get stared at so much سے طرف کی the way I dress?

Okay so I like to dress quite عملی حکمت sometimes like over the knee socks, bright colours, big massive bows and flowers in my hair, cute dresses and everyone always gives me weird looks because of the way I dress, why do they do that it hurts me? should I just start dressing مزید boring?
 RnBStar13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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sesshyz said:
Idk.... if I saw someone dressed like that I'd have to look also. People just don't see dress like that everyday. People might even think you're a... *GASP* weeaboo. And/or hungry for attention. (Massive head-bows? really?)

If that's your style...and آپ want to dress that way, fine....more power to ya... but آپ need to be able to handle the criticism that goes along with it. People are judgmental, and dressing like that probably doesn't make a best first impression. I'm just being honest.
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Thanks :)
RnBStar13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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and yes I do wear massive head-bows, i think they're amazing
RnBStar13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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np =)
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faiyah226 said:
آپ shouldn't worry about others cause your trying to express yourself and trying to make your own style.don't worry about what others think because its your life.
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Thanks :)
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AcidBanter said:
Don't take it as a negative thing, sometimes when people are looking at آپ it's probably cuz they like what you're wearing. Well, that's usually what I think when I look at someone's outfit.

I remember one girl had a victorian style dress, but she had a modern gothic edge to it, she really suited it.

Just remember it's not a bad thing to turn a few heads.
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Thank آپ :) it's just i don't like getting stared at but i don't want to dress any differently and i shouldn't have to
RnBStar13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Then don't. Don't let anybody make آپ feel bad about your style. It's yours, not theirs :)
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vampiressJazz said:
I think it's cool آپ dress like that :) it's unique, one of a kind. Don't care what others think there probably jealous that آپ have the confidence to dress that way.

Dressing how آپ want is fine just as long as آپ don't dress like your homeless یا a slut.
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Thank آپ :) well I don't have confidence, i'm far from it, i just feel comfortable with the way I dress :) it's how I express myself
RnBStar13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Np :) if آپ dress how comfortably then it's easier to boost your confidence (:
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terhenetar said:
It depends on how they stare. If آپ dress the way آپ described, it is only to be expected that people will look at you, simply because they see something out of ordinary. It doesn't necesserily mean that they will stare in a negative and/or judgemental way. It is natural that in a group of, say, 20 people dressed in jeans and t-shirts a person dressed in an 'anime way' will stand out.
So yes, if آپ do not want to attract attention آپ should dress in a مزید typical way. آپ are the only person who can say whether this attraction bothers آپ یا not. If it doesn't, keep on dressing the way آپ do. :) If it does, well, there is another question: Do people just stare یا do آپ notice their negative attitude as well? I'm afraid that there's nothing آپ can do about those who do not accept individuality and want everyone to dress all the same, apart from ... ignoring them.
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jester616 said:
I think آپ probably have مزید confidence than آپ think. It takes guts to stand out. Last سال my daughter had the same problem at her old school. She's artistic and designs her own clothes, یا she likes to wear dresses from the '40s. Other people stared یا commented, usually negatively. When she tried to dress مزید "normal", she then got flack for trying to fit in. Ultimately she decided that it's worthless to please others, so she dresses how she likes. Don't let other people get to you. You're young--enjoy it.
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