should i اقدام on?

I know it may hurt آپ to see her with other guys, but love isn't a choice. If آپ love her, it will be harder to اقدام on emotionally. If she's straight, it is unlikely she will change. I know it is nice to think that she will start to feel the same way as you, but آپ can't change someone's sexual orientation یا make them have romantic feelings toward you.

I'm not sure. Part of me wants to tell آپ that it would be healthy for آپ to اقدام on and find another girl. On the other hand, the girl I'm in love with says that she's straight (although I think/hope she isn't).

Well, I'm sure آپ know this, but there are plenty of other مچھلی in the sea. There are definitley girls like you!