what do آپ do when آپ have a broken heart?

my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and im so sad :(
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ilovekud said:
wow so sorry to hear that!!.. i would listen to some sad songs, cry let it out, then listen to some death metal, and start to heal سے طرف کی relating to the lyrics n get all my anger n aggression out, but it does take me a few days to feel better. again, im sorry! if u need to talk hit me up.
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yea okay thanks
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sapherequeen said:
Write. It always helps. Trust me =)
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rayray36 said:
Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that...
also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom یا some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with دوستوں but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes مزید pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur دل out 2 them and then they tell every1...


Step 1
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.

Step 2
Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that آپ can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.

Step 3
Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would آپ give to your friend?

Step 4
Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do آپ believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?

Step 5
Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how آپ feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.

Step 6
If آپ feel آپ need to know why he cheated on آپ to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean آپ condone, agree with یا accept his behavior.

Step 7
Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology یا promises never to cheat on آپ again. Be realistic. Do آپ honestly believe this was a one-time event, یا do your instincts tell آپ that he'll probably cheat on آپ again in the future?

Step 8
Ask yourself if آپ would be better off with him یا without him. Can آپ continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?

Step 9
Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.

Step 10
Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether آپ stay with him یا not, forgive him for his actions so آپ can heal and اقدام on with your life.


Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com link

small quotes from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their دل once again

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the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.-

srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD

*Wishes u good luck*
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 Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that... also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom یا some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with دوستوں but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes مزید pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur دل out 2 them and then they tell every1... Step 1 Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal. Step 2 Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that آپ can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own. Step 3 Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would آپ give to your friend? Step 4 Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do آپ believe he won't repeat his actions in the future? Step 5 Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how آپ feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship. Step 6 If آپ feel آپ need to know why he cheated on آپ to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean آپ condone, agree with یا accept his behavior. Step 7 Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology یا promises never to cheat on آپ again. Be realistic. Do آپ honestly believe this was a one-time event, یا do your instincts tell آپ that he'll probably cheat on آپ again in the future? Step 8 Ask yourself if آپ would be better off with him یا without him. Can آپ continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal? Step 9 Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger. Step 10 Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether آپ stay with him یا not, forgive him for his actions so آپ can heal and اقدام on with your life. Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_9817_handle-cheating-boyfriend.html#ixzz0vVJxTTs6 small quotes from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their دل once again http://weirdgrl12.glogster.com/healthy-recovery/ the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.- srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD *Wishes u good luck*
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I agree
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Funnygirl77 said:
awwwwwwww i'm sorry, I just deal with it but that's just me. I would tell u to talk with some of your friends. Theyll be able to help sorry aging
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yea but right now it just feels that i cant stop cryin
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aww i hope u fill better :D
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yea okay i guess it will take time
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Duncan-superfan said:
I'm so sorry that happened. If he did that then he obviously doesn't deserve you. As for helping with a broken heart? I'm sorry but I don't really have advice for that. Just remember that you're too good for that dirty cheater.
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thanks that helps some
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No problem.
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GaGaBoi said:
That's what my friend Mr. Smirnoff is for. (:
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:)
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Spi_Kat_Penguin said:
I'm sorry about your boyfriend, If he cheated on u hes a crazy-poopoo head:) 4 you, just let it all out!!! Cry 4 a little bit, then beat him up a pic of him later!!! (Even him if u want!!!)

-Spi
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okay lol ill try that
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fun123fun said:
eat alot of sweets and wach your fav show
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yea that helps forget
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JBfan516 said:
What i do is i just spend some alone time but i also spend time with my family and friends. Try to balance it
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okay balance is the key to happiness right
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LunaShay said:
Awww im so sorry!!!!!!If آپ have a picture of him and a dartboard,put his face on it and aim for the nose :).Also,get some sugar and watch tv,that always helps,or take a nap(what i do XD).
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Snugglebum said:
آپ shouldnt come to me for that kind of advice, i...im a cutter...last time my heat was broken i took a چھری to my wrist and i dont want آپ doing the same to yourself!If آپ feel youself heading down that same path, dont follow through, TALK TO SOMEONE!
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y not i thought about it before
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trust me, i have a reputation at ہوم now because of it, it makes it worse!
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skaterwildz said:
Sorry to hear that happened to you.:( Just remember that if he didn't know just how great آپ were, chances are he definitely doesn't deserve you. Also a best friend should know that آپ liked him! Personally I like to talk it out with my دوستوں and try to do things that I like to take my mind off of it. Hope this helps. :)
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ok thanks
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Jeffersonian said:
I'm so sorry to hear that, just try to cry it out and maybe make up a story in which something bad happens to them. When I liked this guy but he liked another girl my mom made up a story that I was an adult and a famous مصنف as well has having a hot Australian husband and I came back to my hometown for a book signing, the guy I used to like is there with the girl he likes and she was fat and grumpy. Maybe if آپ make up a story like that it will make آپ feel better.
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lol yea totally helps
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Kadaj said:
I'm not very good with giving advise, but I think آپ should اقدام on - that's what I did when I came back from Halloween break and the flu to find my crush was dating some girl I didn't like - Talk to some دوستوں about it, watch TV - it's what I do when I'm depressed.


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thanks
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rose12345 said:
awww i'm sorry. The best thing i can tell u is surround yourself سے طرف کی your friends, listen to موسیقی relate to it and in a couple of weeks آپ might get over it.
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taismo723 said:
What do I do? I fix it with tape. Why?
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Matsy23 said:
awwwwwwww D: im really sorry to hear that........my advice: try talking to your دوستوں about it, یا talk to your mom(thats what i would do) and آپ could also watch some tv to help forget about him
um....thats really all the advice i could give seeing that i never had a boyfriend
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invaderlin123 said:
i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P
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 i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P
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LadyL68 said:
I'm so sorry :(
The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to اقدام on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)
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 I'm so sorry :( The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to اقدام on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)
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sorry the pic is so small i didn't mean 4 it 2 do that lol
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Tayloraddict-1 said:
Well i eat ALOT but dont do dat it can make u fat but im not fat i stopped b4 that happened
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HNismyfriend said:
look up the song CheaterCheaterBestFriendEater سے طرف کی Never Shout Never on youtube. iit might help. maybe. and if not draw a whole bunch of pics of him falling off a cliff یا getting eaten سے طرف کی sharks یا getting some sort of injuries. that always helps me
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Monrose said:
Go to the ER یا die.
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xshams said:
I try to do something mean to him.
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nikki5516 said:
I very so to hear that I hope آپ feel better.

When I have a broken دل I will listen to sad موسیقی and try to let out all my feels and just think. In a place alone سے طرف کی my self so i can just think and to myself with out anyone bugging me. When I feel better I start listening to happier موسیقی and sing along I will also talk to my دوستوں to make me laugh and smile (suround your self with good friends). And I will wriet out my feels sometimes. I will wriet it in my dairy. XD
some people say that chocolate helps -_- i think it does. When I was sad about my bf my friend John told me to eat chocolate and ice cream and watch tv یا listen to music...lol

like I کہا I hope آپ feel better <3
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