do I have good reasons for hating my stepdad?

yeah i guess. even tho if u dint, i think it would be perfectly normal. my parents are having a divorce and im pretty sure my dad's gonna get a new wife any time soon, and im already starting to hate that fuckin hoe, i know her, i hate her for interrupting my family, breaking it apart, leaving me a nd my brother with my mom, putting my mom in pain. every night i watch my mom cry, its unbearable, i feel like tearing that کتیا, کتيا apart. okay i need to stop tears are coming out. sry im just.....mad.

آپ have a great reason to hate him.that guy needs get major help.

I can understand how آپ feel.

I had a similar stepfather not too long ago.

He started dating my mother when I was 10-years-old, and at first I thought he was hilarious. I liked him :)
But then, things started surfacing. He had a wife (now ex-wife) that he had separated from and two young sons. But then he started sleeping with my mother and eventually got her pregnant. Through out my mother's pregnancy and the birth of my sister he never told his wife یا his sons about it. Until he and his wife got into a fight on his cell phone about something while we were driving to a restaurant and blurted it all out. His sons didn't find out until months later.

Then, he and I started getting into fights. At first, he started criticizing everything I did. If I left a dish in the sink, he'd snap at me to wash it. He would literally watch every اقدام I took. One دن when he came home, I said, "Hello" to him, and he snapped at me about why I didn't do a chore in response. It got to the point where my mother finally told him to knock it off. Then our fights began to get worse. He started swearing at me, and eventually I learned to swear back. He'd call me a "bitch", "pig", and that no one in this house needed me. I called him an "asshole", "pig", and brought up the fact that he cheated on his wife and had a child with another woman.

One night he came into my room and yelled at me about my ویژن ٹیلی being too loud. I tried to tell him I'll take care of it so he'd leave, but eventually I got frustrated. Then he started calling me names again, so I told him to get the f**k out of my room. He did, and I slammed the door behind him. So he came in and hit me in the head (but not hard, at least), and the arm. When my mother came to see what happened, he lied to her and told her that I told him if he didn't get out of my room, I'll knock the f**king door down.
She ended up screaming at us both.

Then came the night, around a سال ago, when we got into a very bad fight. He hit me in the back of the head, so I tried to leave the house. But then he held me against the door سے طرف کی my neck. I eventually kicked him in the stomach (He had surgery there not too long ago), and left the house. It was raining, I was sick, and I only had a T-shirt and shorts on. I eventually found this pottery دکان where an 18-year-old girl was working. She let me stay there until I reached my mother to tell her to come pick me up. The اگلے دن the girl and her boss went to children's services. So my sister and I were almost taken away.

Eventually, my mom broke up with him after he exploded on her (I really don't know the full story).

They've been broken up since. They were getting along for a little while, but one دن he and my mother got into a disagreement on picking up Alyssa. So he came to our house and called my mother a "bitch" and a "piece of s**t" in front of my sister.

I don't think they've gotten along pretty well ever since.

i think آپ do, i mean what happened to آپ real dad first, if it was a bad reason آپ have an even better reason for hating him. also آپ should tell your mom about what he has done to آپ and remind her about the time he cheated on her.

ارے I feel tHe same way about my stepdad, I can realte to all of your reasons. He sounds like a jerk. Just tell him straight up that es not your dad and he cant tell آپ what to do. But be prepared to deal with the consequences..... My stepdad and I dont even talk anymore........

Yes! I hate my step dad too! He is exactly like your step dad but he is abusive likes to knock around me my sister and my mother! He hits us and all but my mum just won't leave him! My sister has recently ran away and we don't know where she is! She ran away cause my step dad is a cock face! :) So it is perfectly normal

This is old but I have to say, I am glad that even though my parents separated, they never remarried. Me and my sister never had to deal with a step parent, which I am greatfull for. As for your problem, I think آپ have every right to not like the man, he seems like a jerk who has some really big issues, such as animal cruelty. I hope things have changed for you, since it has been a year.

Well its natural to hate your step dad I mean if I had on I'll hate him too but maybe I think u are right I mean he should care about U if he wants to be a good father he should care i think u should explain to him what a father really does Give him a piece of your brain

Hey. I know where your coming from. آپ pretty much described my moms husband (I dont even want to call him stepdad) the only reson I dont tell my mom he NEEDs to leav my life is becauses he makes her happy. We always fight and he dosnt give a d***. We fight all the time and he wants to be a fatherly figure but I will not alow.this a** whole to be my dad. But I feel.your resoning is lagit and I feel bad for you. I hope things get better for you. Maby things will be the way they used to be. I know its hard to believe it could happen. I dont believe it could happen for me

All if these match up with my step dad to I also find him very creepy around my other siblings and hum and my on always arguing no matter what and when have no clue why she's still with him it gets on my nerves and I wish I ddnt live there...but my mom keeps telling me "but oh I don't know why youre so mean to him he's so nice to آپ and all آپ do is give him shit" well I dont know آپ try living without your dad your whole life only to see him once a سال while iving with a creep in the house that آپ od t even like and try listening to all this bill crap round the house 24/7...

Personally, I think your stepdad's a son of a bitch. As for apologizing for the fights we had, if I were you, I wouldn't have apologized, even if I didn't start it.

I have reasons for hating some peeps, even tho they ain't good. Honestly, I wouldn't respect him if he didn't respect me. That's how I am towards any age یا gender. If they didn't respect, they sure wouldn't give respect from me. Telling that motherfucker how I feel politely would be the last thing I do.

No offense to those that disagree, but I spoke honestly.