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An important issue, so answer please.

I'm not gay, nor lesbian, etc....
Plus, I don't see any wrong with being gay, lesbian, homo یا bi! I don't see any right with this either.. Which means that I'm neutral.

But I just have a little question, why each time I say to a girl that I like/love her, she understands me the wrong way? However, my mind is totally pure سے طرف کی saying that to her. Precisely Americans (no offense to any of them). I'm female though, and I usually like girls as my best friends, یا even as my sisters, not as AHEM!
I like to talk to girls مزید than talking to guys.
All my group دوستوں is full of girls.
I play with them, having fun together (don't let your mind go to the wrong side please, handle it)..I'm really sick of this. Like imagine it, every time I say to a girl "I like you" she objects strongly and says "I'm not a gay", even though, I'm not either. that happened to me once and I was absolutely embarrassed سے طرف کی this. (Happened on Fanpop, سے طرف کی the way)

What are your thoughts on this? :/
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it's retarded beyond belief
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^ WOW!
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ImAdorkable said:
I'm not a lesbian یا bi. Me and two girl دوستوں (two words, not one) say stuff like that, too. Those two are really my only two دوستوں that are girls. I hang out with guys more, cause I hate the drama girls bring. I have like four best دوستوں that are guys, and sometimes I get mistaken for being bisexual for the way I act. It's totally normal if آپ hang out with girls مزید than guys, یا guys مزید than girls. Just quickly explain to them that آپ aren't lesbian یا bi, آپ just meant it in a friendly way. Me and my best guy friend tell eachother we love eachother a lot, it doesn't change our relationship. Good luck with whatever happens.
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I have lots of دوستوں (girls not guys) 'cause I prefer them, but my best friend is one. Only one. And I know her, as well as she does. And she doesn't bring the dramas all right at my face, 'cause I and her don't like this either. Anyway, the girls that I'm talking about I actually don't know very well. And I feel like I love the way of how one of them think یا act, so I tell her "I like you", آپ know the reaction after so.
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Try politely explaining to them that آپ meant it innocently.
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Probably right. Will see. Thanks. :)
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No problem. :)
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Me_Iz_Here said:
happens to me, really irritating.

just ignore it یا tell them to stop.
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آپ think I have to do so? Well, I won't tell any girl that I like her then ignore her یا to tell her to stop, because I like her.. آپ know.
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Trainofdoom said:
Aw me, that has happened to me..(us?) too!
If they are not gay and I am not gay then there is no problem with it.

Just follow it up with a "no homo"
hoped this helped me!
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=^_^= Thank me. I think I will handle it اگلے time. I just needed my opinion on that. xD
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My welcome! (?)
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Or, I'm welcome. XD
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Hailie_45 said:
آپ kinda hurt me سے طرف کی say "Precisely Americans", but the "no offense.." sentence cured that.
Anyway, that happens a lot to me. I actually don't know what to say after then, and yes this so embarrassing, especially when آپ say to her that آپ like her and all she does is "objection".
I have the same reaction ,so I think I can't help out. Sorry.
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It's okay! I see most of people think the same.
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katy55 said:
u'll certainly have to forgive them. u see because some pplz minds are a little perverteed and also since maybe it might hav that type of enviroment around them thats the first thing that will pop into their heads, other ppl might take it the wrong way so try to ignore it, thats just how life has become these days, آپ hav to watch everything u say otherwise ppl will look at u differently. but anyway, just ignore it.
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Cool response. I think آپ are right. Though, I hardly can ignore anything, but I will try. ^^
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Sasume said:
It just goes to دکھائیں آپ that some people aren't the smartest...take no offense to that, as long as آپ know what/who آپ are آپ don't have to worry about what other people think. Just make sure it doesn't get out of hand. I have plenty of girl دوستوں and we jokingly say stuff like that. It's like when آپ tell your family آپ love them: it's not a romantic love, a family love :D. Yeah, I'm American and some people are jerks. But it doesn't have to do with your nationality, I don't call people gay if they're the same gender as me and say "I love/like you" because I believe in having an open mind and it just doesn't bother me. Good luck!
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posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک 
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Sorry about holding this all to Americans particularly, I knew I should have گیا کیا پوسٹ this part, even if it was one my head. And I know it doesn't have anything with nationalities. I meant that all Americans that I talked to myself thought of the same wrong way. Sorry again. ^^ And thanks for answering. I think I'm convinced now.
ShiningsTar542 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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I'm glad you're better now :D. It's okay, everyone makes mistakes :D and it seems that the jerks are heard مزید than the ones with sense...don't آپ agree?
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Yeah but I'm pretty sure ignorance is a learned skill.
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Jeffersonian said:
For some reason people, Americans precisely (I'm American so nobody freak out) tend to jump to conclusions. That's why I never say in public that I find my پسندیدہ actress cute (like a little کتے not in a lesbian way) because I know if certain people heard they'd take it the wrong way. I think a مقبول American phrase (or at least one I've heard) that might help آپ is LYLAS (Love آپ Like A Sister). Hope I'm helpful.
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Totally true. When I talk to any American I think of an American sentence that doesn't freak them out یا think of me the wrong way. Sorry about saying Americans though. *Blushing*.
ShiningsTar542 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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It gets annoying when people need آپ to elaborate on everything in order for no conclusions to be jumped to.
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