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Have آپ ever heard of something like this and/or seen it person...?

I feel like I might be the only person ever who does it. Whenever my parents, either one of them, are upset یا angry, I immediately assume it's because of me. And that makes me feel so terrible I HURT myself, because I love them so much and hate myself if I though I made people as great as them feel bad... I'll bang my head against the دیوار and tell myself I'm worthless and a disgrace to the family name, things like that, until they find out, calm me down, tell them I'm not the reason for their upset-ness and convince me I'm not worthless... I'm basically like a house elf from Harry Potter when they know they've done wrong. Please don't say anything rude about this. I seriously want to know, have آپ ever witnessed یا heard of anyone else doing that? Does this seem normal?
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Any suggestions on how I could stop it would be helpful too... I've tried just not doing it and fighting the urge, but I can't help it.....
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justleeelee said:
I've seen آپ do that plenty of times, but otherwise, no, sorry... I can't believe آپ still do this, you've been doing it since آپ were 2... آپ need to try and talk with mom and dad again about this...
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Jeffersonian said:
I've never witnessed something like that but I would suggest first off try every morning looking in the mirror and saying something good about yourself. Also accept that parents will fight occasionally and that does not mean the child is the cause of it...parents just fight.
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Um, my parents never fight and I never کہا anything about that..... I کہا when they're upset یا mad, not necessarily at each other...
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Sorry, I assumed since mine do fight a lot (over really stupid things...).
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ShiningsTar542 said:
I love them so much, and I never ever wish any of them to get hurt یا to be dead. I get astonished of the person that hates their parents. I just stand for them and defend them, especially when any of my دوستوں offends them even jokingly. But your psychological state (sorry for saying that) I mean your frame of mind (if that can make up) is a little bit weird to me. I mean, I know it when they are upset because of me, یا mad at me. As well as if they are upset of something else. But I don't hurt myself, I just blame myself.
And that's it, everything gets alright after then.

But don't be worried, maybe it's because آپ love them so much as آپ said.
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" I'm sure of what you've کہا there that your parents love آپ too, and definitely more. :)" Now the last part of that sentence is bullshit. It is impossible for anyone to love anyone else as much as I love my parents. Especially "more"...
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I was trying to help out...? ._____. Did I make it worse?
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Yeah...
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..Now?
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bubblewrapblues said:
I've heard of people doing things like that, but not for the same reason as you.
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LeatherRain said:
No.... sorry...
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dontaskhowiknow said:
Nope, sorry. If I were آپ I'd just, eh I dunno, go see a therapist یا talk to your parents about it, یا just take really deep breaths and drink some water when آپ feel those impulses coming... yeah my advice sucks I'm sorry....
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