1. first, I want آپ to tell me the worst, most utterly offensively way that آپ can, about how آپ felt about me earlier on that day. As best آپ can, take your time, and don’t leave any hurtful little details out. 2. how much of that do آپ still feel? 3. anything else آپ wanna add about why آپ were so mad? (emotional?)….anything?? 4. …k. I want آپ to know that I understand just about everything آپ were saying and that all makes perfect sense to me(except: blah, blah blah). I wanted to hear the way آپ felt about it first, before I told آپ how I feel. 5. First, I’ll say the strongest way I felt about the situation. 6. Secondly, now that I had time to think about it, I considered your view of it, and like I کہا before, I completely understand (Points: A, B, C, etc.) 7. How about you, do آپ understand a little bit better how I saw things? 8. You know I never meant to (all the negative things she saw) 9. The rest should work its way out.