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Is my boyfriend right? Am I judgemental and shallow?

My boyfriend's دوستوں are into drugs. Not real hard stuff یا anything, but I totally disagree with it. I کہا it to him the other دن that I didn't want to be hanging around with them and he کہا I was judgemental and shallow because of it. Is he right? They're pretty nice guys, but I disagree completely with drugs....should I just ignore it? But I don't want these guys hanging around my house? And because my bf got so defensive, I'm afraid he's started into them. If this is true, and he insists on continuing to use them, do آپ think I should end it with him?? :/
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Thanks for all the advice guys!! :) x
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
My advice: dump the guy for someone better. Don't worry about yourself being "shallow", because you're smart for wanting to not be around them, just don't have a boyfriend who calls آپ names and doesn't say "yes" to you.


I don't know آپ that well, but آپ are definitely NOT shallow یا judgmental. آپ are very smart for trying to avoid those idiot pot-heads.

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Couldn't of کہا it better.^
Chewfjkd posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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^why thank آپ 0u0
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m0shercisee said:
not shallow but a little judgemental yea. i do weed sometimes and i know a lot of people who do. doing drugs doesn't make someone a bad person so don't break up with him for that. jus let him and his دوستوں do their own thing and stop trying to control what آپ boyfriend does. آپ can tell them آپ don't want them at your house but who your bf is دوستوں with isn't up to آپ :/

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drugs can KILL you...does your life mean anything to you!?
purpleslurp12 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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things like weed don't kill 99.9% of people and that's all most people do. anyway that had nothing to do with the سوال aha.
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BeastBoyCahill said:
No, he's wrong.
They're wrong to do drugs and آپ should try to reason with him... (Of course, آپ ARE trying to reason with him... that's just something I think آپ should keep going with.)
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
آپ are not the shallow one. آپ are the smart one and he is just defensive. It is sad. آپ don't want to get busted if he gets into trouble because آپ are with them یا something. If he's into drugs I'd just blow him off now while آپ can before it really hurts you.
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couldn't have کہا it better myself! *votes best answer*
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ixAthena said:
It's your boyfriend who's wrong, not you.
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Ssmiley_143 said:
I think if آپ don't like hanging around with him why not just dump him?
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BlindBandit92 said:
Some people would disagree with me. I do know that people have been trying to get certain drugs legal but honestly if he is not doing it for medicinal purposes and is doing illegally, I say dump him because dating who is addicted to drugs can hurt آپ even if آپ don't do it yourself. Your boyfriend is just defensive.

Just my take on the matter.
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greengirl8 said:
Yes! If آپ feel uncomfortable with what they're doing, آپ should stop hanging with them. And your boyfiend is totally wrong, آپ are not judgemental and shallow! Don't ever let anybody push آپ around, especially when it comes to matters like this! :)
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