This is serious, please, please, PLEASE help me!!!!!

lately ive been really depressed and sad about loads of different things (people at school being nasty, upset about the way i look and family arguements) but recently it started to get worse and i started to cut my self...... i dont want people to think im a sick person my harming myself but i just cant stop now what should i do????


No hate تبصرے please x
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How come that every time some one says to tell your parents, why are آپ telling them آپ can't? They aren't going to help آپ if آپ keep saying آپ can't.
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rileyferguson said:
Tell your parents یا relatives
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i cant
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adultswimperson said:
آپ need to see a therapist right away, and if your parent's found out you'd be put in a mental hospital.
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A MENTAL HOSPITAL!!!!!????? YEAAHHH THANKS..... THAT MAKES ME FEEL ALOT BETTER!!! :'(
Directioner470 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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i wouldn't go as far as a mental hospital but آپ would need to see a psychologist of some sort perhaps
Weasel1999 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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they're not mental hospitals. ive been in a "mental hospital" before. it's not that bad. it's quite helpful
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simpleplan said:
آپ should tell your parents.
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i cant
Directioner470 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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How about a relative یا a friend.
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Sylvia_Puffin said:
Tell your school consoler. They're one of the only people who can't tell آپ that they won't help you. Plus, they can actually make آپ feel better.
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ok i might try that ty x
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Chewfjkd said:
Don't cut. There is no point. Call a hotline for help, یا go see your school consilor یا seek comfort in a hobby.
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However, I wouldn't tell your parents if I were you. They would probably send آپ away. Just find a hobby آپ enjoy to wean yourself away from it. I hope this helps.
Chewfjkd posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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yeah it does help alot THANKS :)
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Anytime.
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PoemGirl said:
Message Me it will be worth it..
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sure xxx meebo???
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herpinaderpson said:
is it just me یا has self-harm suddenly got popular?
don't be mad at me, i've cut too. here's something it taught me.
it doesn't mean آپ should be the one who's sorry when the others treat آپ like shit. it's all about seeing this.
i mean, why should آپ harm yourself when the others are the assholes? just turn around, look back at them and کتیا, کتيا slap the shit out of them. because that's how life works.
about the family issues, all i can say is just know that it's gonna be over..someday. family issues is a sensitive point, and i don't really know what advice to give about it.

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ok thanks for the advice means alotxxxx
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sha123shay said:
i think u should tell your parents and mybe they can help

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icant
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MyBlueDragon said:
i've understood that u don't wanna talk to your parents. but here's what i would do if i were u. i'd find something i was really good at, یا just find something to be good at. like singing, گٹار یا maybe a sport. i'd sign up for lessons/trainings and work my پچھواڑے, گدا off. from this there would come at least 1 great thing, maybe 3 if i'd dare.

1. it would take my mind off of everything (this is most likely 100 % sure)

2. maybe i'd get to know new ppl to just live and be happy with. that way i would get through the shit in school since i know i've got دوستوں beside me.

3. when i get really good at what i've decided to do i would as discrete as possible دکھائیں off like a boss. just to make them jealous :3
if idiots say something mean i know i've succeded XD if they go silent i've also succeded. I CAN'T FAIL! :D

if you're already good at something then u can use that as an escape and maybe دکھائیں off a little ;)

sorry if it doesn't help u. i only know what would help me ._.
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it he alot thank u soooo much i might take up gymnastic classes im very good at gymnics thanks again xxxxx
Directioner470 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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i'm cheering for u from my rightful place :) that means, right here~ np btw ^^
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johnlemon said:
Well I have no experience with cutting, but I'd say if آپ don't want your parents to know, آپ should stop. There are other ways to let out your stress. I recommend talking to a close friend یا a school counselor. Just remember, things will get better.
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Draculaura10 said:
Tell someone and work it out. There is no need to cut yourself! Think of the good things and life, and if آپ can't think of things, find one! There's always something out there
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sMCCarthyTV said:
Please don't cut yourself okay? Because that's not gonna fix anything. There is nothing to be mad at yourself because of the way آپ look eather. آپ are not ugly یا anything. If there is any piece of adivce to be دیا about not feeling ugly is to look at yourself in the mirror and just smile. Smiling can really make آپ forget about the bad times and the bad thoughts about your appearance. And I can understand bullying being really annoying. You're probably going to say "What the heck are آپ talking about?" when I give آپ the answer to your bulling issue but the way I think of it is that if آپ get bullied then you're being drawn into a chellenge between آپ and the person how is giving آپ trouble. To win the challenge آپ need to keep your self estem up سے طرف کی دکھانا them that nothing they say doesn't matter to آپ and if آپ give into the bullying than you're just giving them what they want and letting them win. As for your family problems, I would say maybe not letting the arguements get out of hand and if they do get out of hand, try cooling down and just walk out, forget about the argument and think about something possitive and just talk to your parents about maybe doing something fun so they can also forget about it. Hope this stuff helps. And if none of my advice works then I can't really help but best of luck :)
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darange said:
آپ HAVE to tell your relatives یا parents! آپ have to stop cutting yourself, I know that people think it makes the depression and stress go away but it doesn't آپ will just want to cut yourself more, if your parents find out from someone else آپ will probably be sent to a "residential treatment facility", I'm sorry if this made آپ feel worse but آپ have to stand tall tell your parents یا relatives, I hope this helps
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And don't say آپ can't! Just like darange said, آپ HAVE too. They will get mad at آپ if آپ don't tell them right away and they have to know either way
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laura199627 said:
Talk with someone about how آپ feel., you´ll see it will help a lot.
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BlackRShooter6 said:
i've been through depression many times and i can tell you....it sux (sorry for the language) all آپ can do is smile at ur enemies (it kills them, really!) and if they hit u یا anything, jz stand up to them! Dont be a doormat. People always take advantage of those type of people. آپ are not a vegetable so, don't cut yourself either as what's the use?? It's just hurting yourself for no reason. As they say 'Life isnt about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to dance in the rain'
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cheering for آپ :) Don't give up!!
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