Suicide

ارے I empathize with آپ a bit on this topic. I don't feel آپ are wrong but I also dont feel آپ are necessarily right either.

Firstly, I would like to say NO one is required to reach out and help people if they don't know how to and if they aren't directly approached. Yes if someone comes up to you, then آپ SHOULD try your best, but also if they start acting entitled to your ear, that too is a problem and آپ should try to establish boundaries.

However, in the sense آپ are mentioning - like the FB posts - that is not really anything anyone is obliged to reply to. If آپ can't handle it, it doesn't matter how much experience you've had with the matter یا anything. آپ don't have to share your experience. If آپ can help and آپ genuinely want to help and no one else is coming to their aid, then I would go regardless of if I did یا didn't genuinely care since honestly, as people کہا above, while some MIGHT be for attention, it really might be a genuine final call for help.

It may seem dramatic یا like some exotic fancy دکھائیں for attention, but some people are desperate and do need it. Plus, some people are quiet depressive, others are actually very vocal about it. Even if they weren't going to do it but were extremely contemplating it, it is a concern that has to be taken seriously.


With that being کہا though, I do disagree with necessarily saying adults should be able to handle it themselves. Maybe it is the me that had to take care of my parent's mental health excessively and the amount of shitty adults I've had in my childhood, but adults are humans just like everyone else. Yes, they should be مزید mature, but they have issues, stresses, depression, anxiety, and severe mental health issues like any kid یا teenager.

Major Depression isn't a mood and emotion that can just be 'handled' یا figured out, and Im sure that is something آپ probably understand and know personally. Child, teen, یا adult, it is something that needs to be treated with a lot of care, support, and treatment to recover and honestly, I would much rather have adults breaking that illusion that life is easy, safe, and that they have everything together "like adults should" than I would to find out they killed themselves because they wanted to be "adult like".

I believe everyone has a right and shouldn't be judged (in most cases) for trying to reach out for help especially around being suicidal and depressed if they are genuine.

I see where آپ coming from and yeah I have the same issue sometimes on what to say to people when their feeling sad یا depressed. I actually have helped some دوستوں in the past so are doing a lot better now and some continued to talk about them being depressed a social media so I know it can be hard seeing that. Yes as adults we should a lot مزید mature when it comes to posting stuff on social like how آپ mentioned and we should be able to know a least how to deal with emotions of course not everyone personis perfect and we all grow over the years and no your not wrong to think that way. If آپ have a kid آپ wouldn't want them see things like that and sometimes when آپ already did your part in the friendship it's best just not to keep helping cause the person already made the decision not to take your advice in the end it's there choose either continue acting the same after they gotten advice. I hope this is very helpful and what your looking مزید but am glad to hear people are wanting to help those that are in need of help.^^

Sometimes people really don't have anyone to lean on during their darkest times, so such posts online are like their last call for help in hopes that someone will care.
The ones who are doing it for attention only usually don't even want to hang out as much but just gain sympathy and تبصرے as a form of approval that people care about them. It's also a form of problem, but not as heavy as when the person just needs somebody to wipe away the dark thoughts, because in that moment they feel like they are truly alone.