Have آپ ever met someone with serious anger issues? If so, how do آپ deal with them?

I’ve met several throughout my lifetime, specifically in high school. I never knew how to deal with them though and in many encounters they happened to be close friends. Whenever I encouraged them to get help it would usually make things worse, soooo don’t do that xD I’ve also met many kids I’ve babysat with incredible anger issues. And of course their moms didn’t give a single fuck xD

A few symptoms I’ve noticed:
- Projects their anger of something else onto you/their partner.
- Can be physically aggressive. Maybe not necessarily towards you, but will try kicking/punching walls.
- Tends to hold long grudges (cannot let go of the past)
- Refuses to see their wrongs; will always shift blame and cannot apologize.
- Will do something purposely to see the other person fall (e.g. this kid I babysat literally broke his sister’s Barbie for the funzies xD)
- Assumes everything that works to their advantage.

There’s probably a lot مزید that go unnoticed but late night me can’t think of anymore :P Ive always thought it was interesting dealing with these types of things, just because one has to be very delicate while addressing the issue یا else that would just build up مزید anger. The way I used to handle it for kids at least is truly to explain to them the difference between right and wrong. But when it comes to teenagers and up, it’s so hard to change their mentalities. Not to mention how social media advocates the ‘bad boy’ behavior.... fuck you, Netflix xD

 cosmic_fusions posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Windwakerguy430 said:
Yeah, my mom
But that's dark territory :P
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BlindBandit92 said:
If I can help it I won't associate with them. یا if I know them well enough I'll try to use several bullet points in a discussion to calm them down. But not everyone with anger issues is inherently a bad person so I judge each situation/person differently unless I find parallels. But if I feel someone is too far gone. I'll leave them alone. Unless I have an issue with them then I might argue with them. It really depends on how close I am to the situation.
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zanhar1 said:
My dad.

For the longest time we did not get along. We were always walking on egg shells with each other. Even after 10+ years of dealing with it, I couldn't tell آپ how because literally anything could set him off. Sometimes nothing at all would. Mostly he just yelled but he'd throw and مککا, عجیب الخلقت things too. He'd never got physical with me, but watching it was still horrifying and tbh I still cringe when anyone raises their voice (even if it's not at me).

I guess the best thing to do (at least it was in my case) was to walk away and just leave him alone to cool off. My problem was that I liked to win and have the last word. So...yeah.

Basically what ended up happening was that he finally got professional help and he's finally medicated right and stuff like that. And our relationship has improved drastically.

But like in terms of dealing with them, I usually just don't. My dad is an exception because he's my dad and he's put in so much effort to help himself and work on his anger. But I try to avoid people with anger issues because I'm not an aggressive person unless I have to be and I don't want to be in a relationship of any kind where I'd have to constantly be on edge and defend myself 24/7.
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Nuri__ said:
The only person I've dealt with serious anger issues was my father he also an abuser, up until I was a teenager all of the mental health issues I've had because of him.

Now that is in past.
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Canada24 said:
Yeah, but we don't talk about him..
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Kuro_Hyou666 said:
I deal with it سے طرف کی finding ways to not have to deal with it. A.k.a, that person gets right the fuck outta my life, so I don't have to deal with their bullshit.

I should be a fucking psychiatrist.
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