Death...

My grandpa just died, about four hours ago. I just don't know what to do right now. Can anyone just help me n' tell me what to do right now?

 AXLRgirl2420 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Eline_K said:
First of all, I'm so sorry for آپ loss. My deepest condolences for آپ and your family.

Losing someone آپ love it probable the worst thing that can happen, but the good news is time will heal the pain.

Try to focus on his life, not his death. Remember him for the wonderful person he was. Talk about him with your family and friends, even if it makes آپ cry. Crying is a natural way of dealing with your emotions and it's nothing to be ashamed off. Also, don't feel guilty if something funny happens and آپ laugh. Talk about nice memories of your grandpa when آپ want to, but also don't be afraid to talk about something entirely else too. That's the first step to living your life without him. Once the memorial service and funeral stuff are over آپ have to get back to your normal life. Talk about him when آپ want to, even if his death has been a long time ago, grieving takes time. Deal with this in your way, not the way آپ think آپ have to if that doesn't feel right for you.

Remember: focus on his life, not his death. Don't think of all the moment آپ miss with him, but of all the moments آپ shared with him.

I wish آپ and your family all the strength tomorrow and in all the hard days to come.

If آپ want to talk more, feel free to send me a message!

Lots of love,

Eline
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this is great and very well کہا
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thespikedturtle said:
Aww, that is sad. Don't try just forget about him, but just cry instead. With death, all آپ can really do to make yourself feel happier about it is just to cry until آپ can't cry anymore. And when you're done, tell yourself that he's in a better place, and try to اقدام on.
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I couldn't have کہا it better myself.
MadamOcta13 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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this is great
alucard768 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Thanks, I went through the same thing with my cat. I know a cat may not mean as much to a person as a grandpa, but I did love that cat...
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alucard768 said:
when my sis died we all turned off everything and cried together this lasted fo a long time i think آپ and your family need to be together and remember him
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teamsalvatore98 said:
omg...you are bringing back nightmares that came true!!!!!!!!im crying now!!!!!!!!i cant help آپ now...but time will heal it..


sometimes all آپ can do is laugh to keep yourself from crying..
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 omg...you are bringing back nightmares that came true!!!!!!!!im crying now!!!!!!!!i cant help آپ now...but time will heal it.. sometimes all آپ can do is laugh to keep yourself from crying..
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shadow-angel said:
I'm really sorry...I don't have much to say except cry for a while then go on...Hope it helped....and again, I'm sorry...
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alexandra2396 said:
hii i really am sorry!
but آپ know what this happened to me like 4 years پہلے and im still not over it... but the good news is it doesnt hurt!XD look i really can't give آپ any advice saying do this do that but i can say is that the easiest way to اقدام on is to cry... if آپ can't cry it makes it worse so jst let all your feelings out and make sure none are left in. Ohhh and (if your christian یا a religion that آپ pray) i found it helped that when i prayed at night یا whenever (im not very religious) i prayed to my grandad aswell!XD

I hope that helped and im sorry for your loss!
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