Possible...?


This guy (we'll call him Alex) is acting really weird around me. For all 3 years of middle school, I hated him and he hated me. یا so I thought. He was always acting really "smart". The kind of person that is really annoyingly smart. He could be nice at times, but I didn't really talk to him much. Once we reached 8th grade, he started being really nice to me, talking to me all the time, staring in my direction in classes. At the 8th grade dance, he asked one of my دوستوں (a guy, if that makes a difference) to find me...Thus, when I passed him, he tried to get me to request a song. Then I passed him again. He pulled me to the side and asked if I was having a good time.
Now, Alex is sort of....not very well liked. He doesn't really like girls, and when his friend was with a girl (in September), he wasn't too...yeah, آپ know. Happy.
Now, I'm not very comfortable around guys. I once did like someone, but I haven't in about 5 years. Yesterday was the last دن of school, so I'll be going into 9th grade at the same high school as Alex. If this information helps at all....
Anyways, I'd like some advice because this is....confusing. Is it possible to like someone after hating them for 3 years?
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سے طرف کی the way, I hope you've realized that Alex is not his real name. I know آپ have :)
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para-scence said:
Yeah, it's possible. Some guys just dont know how to get a girl to like them. He probably realized that acting like he hates آپ didn't help at all. He was probably jealous of his friend too.
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Thank آپ very much! I hadn't even thought of that attention-getting technique. It's just so different than how he's always been, so I wanted to get an unbiased opinion. :)
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skytail127 said:
it is possible, his sudden change of attitude twards آپ does suggest hes taken a likeing to you.
how آپ feel about him is wats important here though. one thing to ask urself is why u hated him in the first place. it is possible to like someone آپ used to hate, and if u decide آپ do, id suggest going for it, what hav u realy got to lose?
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mudear said:
it is possible that people change their feelings about people in a small time. but آپ need to figure out if آپ still hate him and why آپ do. and if آپ dont hate him anymore i think آپ should give the guy a chance. He seems that he has changed so آپ might find that آپ really like him. good luck

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